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Be Good for No Reason

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Why is that people put other people down? Isn’t that a sign of immaturity? Are you really that who judge others, gossip about someone’s life, and treat them low-grade? You don’t always see results in people more common, as you expect it to be. Our job is to mind our own life; not anyone’s. We go around and across a lot of shit. We easily hurt people, with or without knowledge. Don’t grind anybody’s feelings, emotions, and sensitivity. It is so very easy to advice or recommend people with your advices. In real, it is hard to follow it ourselves. I see many people working hard, striving much harder to comfort their families, as in hectic financial statuses, incurable diseases, physical and emotional tortures, and many. How many of us sit back and shut our mouths instead of just saying things on face to directly hurt them? People with enough sense don’t find pleasure in someone’s hurt. When you can judge or talk so much about it, the person who is personally experiencing it know it better than you and is already working on it. If you cannot be positive or spread goodness into a heart that’s trying to heal, you can at least try our best to chuck off all the wound words you’re about to say. Don’t smash someone’s confidence. Don’t create inside them the lack of self-esteem. No matter how good we’re in and out, we’re being judged. Everytime. In every way. There’s no lack for complaints about the physique you possess, the dress you wear, the money you earn, and the atmosphere you live in. We’re adults. I suppose it’s a matter of basic common sense to greet people with love, to send some good words, to admire that one or two little respectful things a human expose. We desparately need to cultivate and nourish the habit of polishing one another with positive attitude. Practice the act of gratitude. Focus on your own improvement and praise other’s success. Take responsibility on what you should be serious about. Stop arguing too much. Let go of the toxic humans and poisonous thoughts. Always remember, “Blowing out someone else’s candle doesn’t make yours shine any brighter”.
Personally, I’ve learnt and still learning a lot on how to handle a few things in life. I’m getting wiser and better each and everyday. Putting in simple words, I stopped giving a damn to a few worthless humans around. It creates more happiness and peace inside me. ❤
Love & Peace ✌️

© Yashica Priya

I’m the New Bride-to-be. ❤️

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So it’s all done. I packed my bags. My wardrobe is empty. All set to leave my family and home. Few hours left. Counting my last hours as Spinster, and himself as a Bachelor. I’m super excited; also I let my tears flow at night. I’m so embarrassed. I have to wake up to get prepared for my big day. I’ve bought all the beautiful dresses and sarees. I’m loving my ornaments. My mehandi prints are fabulous. I’m gearing up my mind to stand there in front of the huge crowd, with my fiancé. My mom talks about how to life further, how to cook good food, when to wake up in the morning, how I should treat his family, how flexible should I be situations and blend with people; and on the other side my dad starts his lecture. Hell lot of advices from both. For the very first time, their goodness and guidance put me in tears instead of ending up in anger. Parents seem to sound so beautiful at some instances. 24 years of my journey with them. So much comfort and love, all these days and every minute. I’m so deeply jailed behind my thoughts. I’ll no longer be pampered under my parents’care. Myself and my very own family is changing into a long-distance relationship. I’m so afraid. So much. What should I do the very next day at his house? Go to the kitchen early in the morning? Greet my in-laws? So, how will they respond to me back? When to take a break and relax on the couch? A sudden transformation from ‘I lay on my bed all day long and my mom never minds’ to ‘I’ve to take up multiple responsibilities and keep up with my duties everyday’. So weird! When should I go to bed and when does my morning shades appear? What if I act strange or funny sometimes in front of my new family? Will they judge me? Will they love me all the time? I’m confused. I’m scared. I’ve to prepare myself for everything and face it alone. New people, new surroundings, new taste of foods, new relationships. I know I can no more complaint about having Upma for my breakfast. Nor I can make something different according to my taste. It is that. That’s how it is supposed to be. I understand. I’ll miss my mom switching off the fan at 10 a.m. to wake me up; and my dad and cousins who always pull my leg for everything and nothing. I’m sure to do my best to satisfy my new family. I bring a promise here to bring happiness to myself and to my new family too. A changeover from being a daughter and sister to a wife and daughter-in-law. What kind of a curse to all girls to leave her family halfway and go just like that! I’ll wait for the day I can visit my family again. Once in a week or maybe twice a month? That is going to the toughest yet unforgettable moment in my life too. ❤️

© Yashica Priya

1K Followers!! 💗

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Finally 🥰
Reached 1K followers on BEYOND THE END.
Blog life has been the best. ❤️
Feeling blessed, totally. I still remember those days where I had a life that was lame, and people disliking me. Now, I’m here, known to many people just by name and my writings!
Whatever you do, do with love, passionately.
Believe. Believe hard that you deserve the best. It’ll reach you somehow. Spread Love and Peace at infinite measures.
Many thanks to my beloveds who always kept me balancing with positive vibes!

Thank you all for the constant support and good words that lifted me to write better and improve!
More love, peace, and prayers to each of you. 🤗
To write is to take a chance, but to get noticed is beyond a blessing. ❤️❤️❤️

Much Love,
Yashica Priya. 🙏💗

Let Them Go

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Let them go.
If they walk away from you, let them walk.
Don’t stop them.
Let them go.
If they wanted you, they would have stayed.
If you loved them and if they hate you, let them go.
If they are meant to be with you, there is no doubt they would’ve continued to be with you.
Observe the way they walk away from you. Observe the reasons they walk away from you. Don’t stop them walking. Let them walk.
Nothing is an accident and nothing just happens.
If they don’t need you, it means they don’t need you. Believe that.
If they don’t like you, it means they don’t like you. Believe that too.
Goodbye is a gift, not everyone gets that.
Your destiny is not tied to the person who left you hanging.
They were here to tell you something.
Cry, it is fine.
But too much of unhappiness gives you guilt.
When people leave, it is not always your mistake.
Who wins, when you move on?
Who wins, if you start living again?
Who wins, when you stop sobbing over?
Who wins, when you leave the past behind?
YOU WIN. YOU.
One day, it is going to be over.
Your fear, your anxiety, your anger, your misery. It will be over.
Blame them for what they have done, but bless them for making you a stronger person.
Thank them for showing what you don’t need.
Know that, if they understood better, they would have done better.
Know that, you don’t have to spend time on something that’s taking all your energy.
You can never be happy if you wish bad for others.
I assure that you can never live in peace by spoiling other’s comfort.
Put your happy seeds now, so that it grows well and someday gives you the best shadow of good life.
That is the gift you give for yourself in the future.
From today, create moments for yourself.

© Yashica Priya

Bitter Past and the Reconstruction

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Everyone has a past, which is a closed book one holds. It is not truly necessary to bring it out to anyone, even to your better half, actually. But make sure that your past only builds you up and improves you and not makes you tough.
Each of the women has had a worst experience. She was forced for child labour. She was raped for a stranger’s enjoyment. She was betrayed by the one she dreamt her life with. She was cheated in the name of love. She was exploited in the name of marriage and drowy. She was backstabbed. She was pushed to the very end of life. She lost the identity of her existence. She was dragged to failure. She was dominated everytime. So men, if you get a girl who went through such consequences, lift her up and lead her future with all your efforts. Wash her hair. Cook her food. Help her succeed. Motivate her dreams. Let her achieve; let her win; let her live. She is too delicate to be dismissed.

In the case of men, he sacrificed his ambition for his family. He did not pursue his dream career because of poverty. He was turned down in a number of interviews. He was often blamed for being unemployed. He carries huge duties on head. He undergoes a severe suffering. He is broken and lost. You women, finding a man is easy. But growing a life with a guy who is going through such heartaches is a real talent. Have on mind that he is fighting for the basic needs. He fights to maintain his relationship. He battles for survival and hardships. Take him as a challenge to shape him and help him grow better. He will, for sure, return it to you in huge. He can sacrifice anything for you.

All that a human needs is support and motivation. Remember, we emerge from experiences. So, never feel repentant about the dead and buried past. Think what is next. It only raises us higher and higher. There is always a better life ahead of the worst past.

© Yashica Priya

Pain that Changes You

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To all the broken hearts!

Every soul goes through pain that cannot be explained.
The way of expressing is different, whereas few show it by anger, and few by tears.

If something kills you inside, it either means you are still longing for it or it literally tore you apart.
But believe; there is no such pain that can last longer. You sure have a remedy. It all depends on what and how you choose things to be later.

The pain that you are experiencing now will make you laugh after a decade. It does for sure. All that matter is how you move on from what pulled you down.
If you keep sticking to what hurts you, it gives you even more deep scars.

It’s okay to cry, but not always.
It’s okay to realize, but do not be sorry.
But it is never okay to hold on to anything longer which ditched you.
Always wish that nobody should ever go through such hard times like you, and by this, blessings come in your way.

The truth is that you, the one who is weak, would be a cure to someone who is so far from you, who almost gave up on life and searching for a person like you.
You both will make a pleasant life ahead.

The saddest part is we sometimes forget how awesome we have been to ourselves, because problem arises when we start thinking what others think about us. Stop doing that.

There is no beautiful person than anyone who actually believes how strong he/she is.
Choose your life. Take a career. Move on with what makes you smile beautifully.

Pain kills.
Pain is annoying.
Pain is beautiful.
Be an inspiration.

You are a miracle! 💚 Love and Peace to all.

© Yashica Priya

Career: Decision-Making | Exploring Long-Term Aspirations

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While there are a few stumbling blocks for deciding the career, there are even more feasibility and likelihood to reach the career you hopefully need. Career and the way to make it possible rely on the latitude one holds. If you have thousand obstacles and million reasons to give up on it, be strong on one vigorous reason why you want to establish it. Some steps are fundamentally demanded in the process.
First, analyze the analysis. Remember your priority and check on yourself.

Second, determine what to be fetched from the career that is about to be built, as in, the thereafter success and the vibrant conclusion.

Third, decide where to start from and what to start with. This is one of the extensive requirements. Plan everything prior that nothing gets diverted in between. And also, always have an alternative plan if Plan A did not work. (I shouldn’t be negative, but talking on reality that in the case of tiny troubles, having a backup is always greater!).

Fourth, gather every little information and study a lot about the theory.

Fifth, perform the first step and applaud yourself.

Sixth, the most important, do all the above without fear.

Predominantly, in case, if there is a failure, don’t give up because what I consider truthful is, your biggest failure turns out as epic success.

Choosing a career is simple, but the performance henceforth matters the most. Aims are the ability from within. Explore and bring them to light.
Measure your mind and and fight against the distractions on the willingness to taste your dream career. Utilize your strength and proficiency to make it salt and spicy.

© Yashica Priya

With Him, Anything would be Perfect ❤️

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I would love to wander around with my husband, resting upon the couch and resting myself on him and enjoy looking at his innocent gaze, and I would desperately want to spend time together, preparing tasty Rotisserie Chicken and teasing each other in our really pretty house with colorful curtains all around in the music world of laughter and smiles. Just uniting each other’s heart with fondness and devotion. 🎶👑💋

#Goals. 🎀

© Yashica Priya

Breaking Someone’s Trust is a Sin!

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Nothing hurts more than being betrayed by the person we love the most. This is so ironically true, and it’s been happening in a lot of cases recently. Betrayal doesn’t always mean of committing adultery after marriage or having another affair during a relationship; being disloyal, false-hearted, inconstant, and breaking someone’s trust are also few amongst. Matter-of-factly, it is too rare to find someone who’s completely willing to dedicate themselves to you. If you find one, keep them. You might get attracted to them, obviously. But before you express your feelings for them, make sure if you are stable enough to handle it till the end. A true relationship is a not a one person’s journey. It must have two strong hearts to fight for each other. If you cannot make it successful, don’t even let the person know that you’re interested in them. Don’t leave them wandering alone in the end with the reason of your family, caste, or finding someone better. Remember the assurance that you gave them initially. Only with that hope you gave the other person would have proceeded. Whatever you give thoughts to while breaking up, I wish you have it at first place before giving the pledge of undertaking that serious commitment. Moving on might be easy from one side, but it won’t be the same for the other person. They would have felt you from heart, physically and emotionally. What could be the even more ugliest sin than breaking someone’s trust and just heading away with your own life? Relationship must be a forever agreement; it’s not a let’s-just-try competition to simply be in it and leave when you know it’s hard to win. Think again and again and again if you really want to be in that relationship and then get into it. Think if you have the capability to fight with your family.
A commitment is not as easy as we think it is. It’s a worthwhile feeling with that one person. Be wise while you choose. If not, stay away. The foundation of the trust you built at first shouldn’t vanish halfway. When you leave your so-called relationship apart, you are causing a great misery to the person who trusted you since the day you wanted them.
Days move ahead, but the soul you cheated on would experience a lifetime injury. They cannot love someone else the way they loved you. After being wounded by the wrong person for the right way of loving, even true love would sound suspicious to them later. The bruises remain. They start missing themselves at one point. Be clear-sighted in cases like these. There are high chances it would make you a better human. Loving someone somewhere by making someone cry isn’t where your life gains a meaning. Understand and act real.

To someone who has gone/is going through this pain:
It’s truly not okay. But still, leave it right there. Build back and fight for your real needs. They simply don’t deserve even a piece of you as your best days are so near. So it’s okay. Move on, but go on. ❤

© Yashica Priya

The Right Love

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Oh my love, the right and last love of my life.
The way clouds start splitting up into small cotton balls and go fading,
giving clear vision of sky blushing with the brightest sunshine to the world,
in the same way you ended all my miseries by coming in, giving beautiful colours to my life.
Waking up with burdens has now been replaced with unexplainable happiness,
as you promised to give me loyalty and your time.
This love is so divine, so soothing, and so blissful.
I’m longing for the passionate feel of being wrapped around your arms;
but it makes me long for more whenever you’re not around.
Hot balls of fire striking my head while you move from me,
adding burns to this fragile heart and taking away all my peace.
This isn’t a let-it-go kind of bond,
but a bond that deserves standing by and accepting the hardest pain.
Wanting to be with you forever could be my only everlasting wish now and always;
I want to hear you breathe, sense your instinct, feel your touch, and completely inhale all the love from your soul.
I just want to scream to the universe about my dreams with you, and stand by you to make all your wishes come true.
Just like how snow pours out slowly and slightly but covers the land fully,
I want to shower bits and pieces of good moments on you and make your life complete.
You make me go crazy, and it’s worthwhile to travel every moment of life with a person like you.

© Yashica Priya

Never Your Loss

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In life you have let people walk away when they want to. Instead of regretting that they left you, make them regret to had missed you. Teach them a lesson that it’s wrong to let go of things soon that is worth having for lifetime. It’s okay to teach people who become illiterates while choosing a life. Don’t have a war with something which you know will make you lose yourself at the end. Don’t suspect your goodness just because someone didn’t value it.

© Yashica Priya

Okay, so Imagine as I Say.

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A few years later from today, you will sit on a fluffy cushion in your own apartment with your partner God blessed you with. Your living room is painted in a beautiful colour and your best-loved painting is on the wall. Your children play happily in front of your eyes. You hold your partner’s hand and watch the favourite TV show. Butter popcorn is getting ready in the kitchen. And, the next day is a special occasion and you’re all set for it. You will be ten times happier than you’re today. You have so much money to donate to an orphanage. You feel happy that God has blessed you higher than what you lost previously and feel thankful. Life is good. You are chill!

Doesn’t this sound cute? Keep dreaming and make it happen. ❤

© Yashica Priya

A Letter to my Daughter and Son in Future.

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“Dear daughter-to-be,
Baby. I’m writing this to let you know about the world I’m living in right now. Before you come here to the land of evils, ask God to give you all the holy powers to survive among the wicked. I’m sure to carry you with so much care and love for 9 months. The day you enter this here, it is going to be a little bitter to face the world. I being your mother, don’t expect me to pamper you all the time. Have your own set of advices and morals to yourself when I’m not around. Don’t expose your weakness in front of people. Always remember you are a strongly raised woman. Be polite every time, but that doesn’t mean you should always say an ‘YES’. Say ‘NO’ when you really want to. Let others know what your beliefs are. Be social but with limits, because not everyone will be good and the same with you throughout. Limit your distance with unworthy conversations because it will bring you down with non-standard conclusions. Raise your voice at the lower behaviours shot against you. Never panic. When people want you to dress like this and that, go ahead with what you feel is the best. If you feel being defeated, it is okay. Stand up again and be wise. Help others; those blessings will reach you tenfold back. Don’t look up to the beauty parlours to make you LOOK good. Once you FEEL good about the best things you already possess, you automatically become the most prettiest. Don’t spend your life dieting. Have cheese and then exercise. It’s okay. When someone judge you, it is none of your business to turn back and correct them. Walk away and don’t give a damn. You have so much to do in life. Don’t appreciate the unnecessary touch from your male friends. I don’t want to see you crying on the pillows when you did no wrong. Think twice before you shed down your tears, because tears are precious and never let it reach the ground for no use. Practice the habit of letting go of people who puts you under their knee. It is never okay to put your heads down before unhealthy relationships whatsoever. Your self-respect should forever be the point-number-one. You will have the right man in future. Until then, wait. Don’t fall for words. Don’t believe the mesmerizing words attempted at you. The world is occupied with more of illusions than that of reality. Always prefer a goodbye over a wrong cup of coffee. ❤️

Dear Son-to-be,
I write the shortest message to you.
Just because you’re a boy doesn’t mean you shouldn’t cry at all. If something makes you cry, never hold on. Let the tears flow out. It makes you decide better then. Choose your circle carefully because it will define you. No matter what a woman does to you, never hurt her physically or mentally. You have no rights to touch her beyond words. Be that kind of a man who would open car door for the ladies in his life. Be that man with whom a woman would feel secure with. Don’t believe the society when it says, ‘Kitchen isn’t a place for men!’. Washing the vessels won’t degrade your standards. Be flexible to situations as you get to handle so many people and financial statuses in every stage of life. Once you’re committed in a relationship, never leave her hands until she wants to let you go. If a woman is not okay with you, leave the place. She doesn’t belong to you and vice versa. Accept and walk away. Instead, never abuse her because a man raised rightly would never do that. Money is required but don’t make it a priority. Have your personal space with the darling of your life after wedding. Build your family as if it means the world to you. Always keep your wife first before anyone; not even me. She is the only soul for you till the end of life chapter. Raising you well was my duty. Keeping her happy is your responsibility. You are for her because she came to this world just for you. Always remember a woman’s heart is so fragile and be sure to safeguard it at any situation. Be attentive, and respect. She deserves more of it. Never be the reason behind her pain. Don’t get too stressed too easily. Stress is nothing but what you build. Celebrate life. Forget about the bills. Cherish your career. Love it simply. Life will be awesome. ❤️

With so much love,
Your mom-to-be. 🤗”

© Yashica Priya