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Breaking Someone’s Trust is a Sin!

Nothing hurts more than being betrayed by the person we love the most. This is so ironically true, and it’s been happening in a lot of cases recently. Betrayal doesn’t always mean of committing adultery after marriage or having another affair during a relationship; being disloyal, false-hearted, inconstant, and breaking someone’s trust are also few amongst. Matter-of-factly, it is too rare to find someone who’s completely willing to dedicate themselves to you. If you find one, keep them. You might get attracted to them, obviously. But before you express your feelings for them, make sure if you are stable enough to handle it till the end. A true relationship is a not a one person’s journey. It must have two strong hearts to fight for each other. If you cannot make it successful, don’t even let the person know that you’re interested in them. Don’t leave them wandering alone in the end with the reason of your family, caste, or finding someone better. Remember the assurance that you gave them initially. Only with that hope you gave the other person would have proceeded. Whatever you give thoughts to while breaking up, I wish you have it at first place before giving the pledge of undertaking that serious commitment. Moving on might be easy from one side, but it won’t be the same for the other person. They would have felt you from heart, physically and emotionally. What could be the even more ugliest sin than breaking someone’s trust and just heading away with your own life? Relationship must be a forever agreement; it’s not a let’s-just-try competition to simply be in it and leave when you know it’s hard to win. Think again and again and again if you really want to be in that relationship and then get into it. Think if you have the capability to fight with your family.
A commitment is not as easy as we think it is. It’s a worthwhile feeling with that one person. Be wise while you choose. If not, stay away. The foundation of the trust you built at first shouldn’t vanish halfway. When you leave your so-called relationship apart, you are causing a great misery to the person who trusted you since the day you wanted them.
Days move ahead, but the soul you cheated on would experience a lifetime injury. They cannot love someone else the way they loved you. After being wounded by the wrong person for the right way of loving, even true love would sound suspicious to them later. The bruises remain. They start missing themselves at one point. Be clear-sighted in cases like these. There are high chances it would make you a better human. Loving someone somewhere by making someone cry isn’t where your life gains a meaning. Understand and act real.

To someone who has gone/is going through this pain:
It’s truly not okay. But still, leave it right there. Build back and fight for your real needs. They simply don’t deserve even a piece of you as your best days are so near. So it’s okay. Move on, but go on. ❤

© Yashica Priya

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© Yashica Priya

Knowing Self-worth is More Important

Today, I breathe without people I thought I wouldn’t live without.
I eat to stay healthy for myself without thinking if my once-upon-favourites had eaten food.
I sleep in peace instead of worrying about the “Why me” and “What if” things.
I feel so good about myself today after struggling with lots of injuries in heart.
I understood that I should be only person for me to come before anyone else.
I’m so happy to live life pleasantly.
I became mentally so strong to accept rejections or discouragement at any moment.
I finally realised that it’s never okay to give someone a 100% who deserve only a 40, and it is not acceptable to prioritise someone who should had been cleared from the circle long back.
Always understand that you cannot skip the characters you meet in life. You only can get through them. Remove people from life whom you know are blocking the blessings God has sent you. Life would be much much better once you recognise when to let go of people who add wrong flavours to your mental health, and learn how to master your thoughts.
You will be healed and reshaped very soon. Love and Peace to all. ❤

© Yashica Priya