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Breaking Someone’s Trust is a Sin!

Nothing hurts more than being betrayed by the person we love the most. This is so ironically true, and it’s been happening in a lot of cases recently. Betrayal doesn’t always mean of committing adultery after marriage or having another affair during a relationship; being disloyal, false-hearted, inconstant, and breaking someone’s trust are also few amongst. Matter-of-factly, it is too rare to find someone who’s completely willing to dedicate themselves to you. If you find one, keep them. You might get attracted to them, obviously. But before you express your feelings for them, make sure if you are stable enough to handle it till the end. A true relationship is a not a one person’s journey. It must have two strong hearts to fight for each other. If you cannot make it successful, don’t even let the person know that you’re interested in them. Don’t leave them wandering alone in the end with the reason of your family, caste, or finding someone better. Remember the assurance that you gave them initially. Only with that hope you gave the other person would have proceeded. Whatever you give thoughts to while breaking up, I wish you have it at first place before giving the pledge of undertaking that serious commitment. Moving on might be easy from one side, but it won’t be the same for the other person. They would have felt you from heart, physically and emotionally. What could be the even more ugliest sin than breaking someone’s trust and just heading away with your own life? Relationship must be a forever agreement; it’s not a let’s-just-try competition to simply be in it and leave when you know it’s hard to win. Think again and again and again if you really want to be in that relationship and then get into it. Think if you have the capability to fight with your family.
A commitment is not as easy as we think it is. It’s a worthwhile feeling with that one person. Be wise while you choose. If not, stay away. The foundation of the trust you built at first shouldn’t vanish halfway. When you leave your so-called relationship apart, you are causing a great misery to the person who trusted you since the day you wanted them.
Days move ahead, but the soul you cheated on would experience a lifetime injury. They cannot love someone else the way they loved you. After being wounded by the wrong person for the right way of loving, even true love would sound suspicious to them later. The bruises remain. They start missing themselves at one point. Be clear-sighted in cases like these. There are high chances it would make you a better human. Loving someone somewhere by making someone cry isn’t where your life gains a meaning. Understand and act real.

To someone who has gone/is going through this pain:
It’s truly not okay. But still, leave it right there. Build back and fight for your real needs. They simply don’t deserve even a piece of you as your best days are so near. So it’s okay. Move on, but go on. ❤

© Yashica Priya

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Those are Worth Searching for!

The wrong guy makes you regret for the right things you do.
If he constantly gives you guilt for the care you show, love you provide, and makes you doubt yourself about your worth, it’s high time to let him go.
Look ahead. There’s a better man waiting to hug you for your nonsense. He’s the one. ❤

© Yashica Priya

Happy Men’s Day ❣️

Amongst other men who rape and disrespect women, there are other gentle-hearted men out there who see a mother’s love in wife’s warmth, treat her well, respect her choices, listen to her broken stories, lift her up when she falls, and hug her with silent prayers.
Happy Men’s Day to those lovely kinds! More love and peace to you.
You guys are absolutely special. 💕

© Yashica Priya

Beauty of Men

On an estimation of woman’s achievements, a theme about men should also be contemplated equally.
So, how back-breaking is it to breathe as a man?
It is not just a woman who takes care of the hardships at home, but a man who is being an initiative for all the resources.

If a woman is meant to build her home, a man is building his family. He is running to pay the bills and expenses. He behaves as an armour to protect his people.

His unceasing efforts are neither seen nor exhibited.
He struggles at workplace. He strives hard for family’s welfare.

He runs the entire family; at the same time, he is being complained about the quality of rice. He enjoys the struggles to please us.
He helps accomplish his son’s future, inspite of heavy burdens inside.
He is too concerned about his daughter’s well-being, just because the world is morally corrupted.

He carries a series of sensations to give a good life to his wife after 60s.

Still, he is judged on things that he couldn’t do.
Don’t hurt him. Be sure that you appreciate him for the million little things he does.

Always compliment them, be it a father, a brother, or a husband.
Because,

They care so much but they don’t understand the meaning of expressing it.

He leaves home everyday with a word “Take Care”.

He waves hand while leaving, but turns back once again if you locked home and got back inside.

He earns less, but brings home lots.

He says NO first, but later agrees with whatever you say.

He seems rude, but loves you secretly.

He restricts, but for the sake of goodness in future.

He never appreciates, but is always glad about your good work.

They don’t have a replacement. Salute; men are special!

© Yashica Priya