Moving on is the toughest segment one can go through in life. They talk to you, create memories with you, give you surprises, take efforts to be with you. But nothing remains the same throughout. Everything changes. Everyone changes. It is completely sick to expect people to remain the same with you. They find new people, different relationship, fresh career, or their dream environment. The atmosphere they engage into changes them completely. Also, you might have given them so much importance in life. You might have made them really really special. They might have cherished all that you have done to them. But it is not the same always. They never asked you to do all these but you did. Why? Because you love them? Because you want them to stay in your life forever? So that they won’t move aside from you? If these are the factors, it’s time to feel sorry for yourself. Trust me, your efforts, time, love, care, or whatever you do for others come with a expiry date in one’s life. Once it is there, it’s no more of your time with them anymore. Someone else overtakes. They find a deep connection with that new person. Giving lectures, trying to create a bond again, going behind, doing all the possible things to make them stay—no; nothing would really work. If one of you decide it is over, it means it is. Moving on is difficult. Letting go of something that kept you alive is tremendously hurtful. But think. Haven’t you done your best to always keep them at first place? Haven’t you showered enough love to always gel with them? Haven’t you asked them where all their efforts have gone? Haven’t you earlier told them how it feels to be ignored? Haven’t you tried explaining that loneliness kills? Haven’t you told that lack of appreciation creates inferiority? Haven’t you cried your feelings to them? You did everything. Literally everything. Enough being what you are not. Be what you really are. You’re so good to yourself. Treat your body better. Take care of your heart well. May your mind be relieved from all distressing thoughts. Few things that happen in life break your soul, tear you apart, put you lifeless. Move in front. Get back from unrealistic surrounding what you thought was real. It is possible. Push yourself to do that. One day, these will not even matter. Bless them and let it go. From stronger to being strongest.
Peace and Love to all.
© Yashica Priya
Never quit halfway. Never! You did your best. You tried so much. You are now closer. Don’t close it when you’re ready to execute. Get reward for your sweat and pain. You will win! If not, try again. ❤️
Love and Peace🌸
© Yashica Priya
One day I’ll stand tall in front of people who pulled me down. I’ll have my shoulders above people who tried to suppress me. I’ll make people regret for treating me bad. I’ll bring my talent to limelight.
One day I’ll make you really really proud.
I’m getting prepared for all the above.
© Yashica Priya
To all the broken hearts!
Every soul goes through pain that cannot be explained.
The way of expressing is different, whereas few show it by anger, and few by tears.
If something kills you inside, it either means you are still longing for it or it literally tore you apart.
But believe; there is no such pain that can last longer. You sure have a remedy. It all depends on what and how you choose things to be later.
The pain that you are experiencing now will make you laugh after a decade. It does for sure. All that matter is how you move on from what pulled you down.
If you keep sticking to what hurts you, it gives you even more deep scars.
It’s okay to cry, but not always.
It’s okay to realize, but do not be sorry.
But it is never okay to hold on to anything longer which ditched you.
Always wish that nobody should ever go through such hard times like you, and by this, blessings come in your way.
The truth is that you, the one who is weak, would be a cure to someone who is so far from you, who almost gave up on life and searching for a person like you.
You both will make a pleasant life ahead.
The saddest part is we sometimes forget how awesome we have been to ourselves, because problem arises when we start thinking what others think about us. Stop doing that.
There is no beautiful person than anyone who actually believes how strong he/she is.
Choose your life. Take a career. Move on with what makes you smile beautifully.
Pain is annoying.
Pain is beautiful.
Be an inspiration.
You are a miracle! 💚 Love and Peace to all.
© Yashica Priya
While there are a few stumbling blocks for deciding the career, there are even more feasibility and likelihood to reach the career you hopefully need. Career and the way to make it possible rely on the latitude one holds. If you have thousand obstacles and million reasons to give up on it, be strong on one vigorous reason why you want to establish it. Some steps are fundamentally demanded in the process.
First, analyze the analysis. Remember your priority and check on yourself.
Second, determine what to be fetched from the career that is about to be built, as in, the thereafter success and the vibrant conclusion.
Third, decide where to start from and what to start with. This is one of the extensive requirements. Plan everything prior that nothing gets diverted in between. And also, always have an alternative plan if Plan A did not work. (I shouldn’t be negative, but talking on reality that in the case of tiny troubles, having a backup is always greater!).
Fourth, gather every little information and study a lot about the theory.
Fifth, perform the first step and applaud yourself.
Sixth, the most important, do all the above without fear.
Predominantly, in case, if there is a failure, don’t give up because what I consider truthful is, your biggest failure turns out as epic success.
Choosing a career is simple, but the performance henceforth matters the most. Aims are the ability from within. Explore and bring them to light.
Measure your mind and and fight against the distractions on the willingness to taste your dream career. Utilize your strength and proficiency to make it salt and spicy.
© Yashica Priya
Nothing hurts more than being betrayed by the person we love the most. This is so ironically true, and it’s been happening in a lot of cases recently. Betrayal doesn’t always mean of committing adultery after marriage or having another affair during a relationship; being disloyal, false-hearted, inconstant, and breaking someone’s trust are also few amongst. Matter-of-factly, it is too rare to find someone who’s completely willing to dedicate themselves to you. If you find one, keep them. You might get attracted to them, obviously. But before you express your feelings for them, make sure if you are stable enough to handle it till the end. A true relationship is a not a one person’s journey. It must have two strong hearts to fight for each other. If you cannot make it successful, don’t even let the person know that you’re interested in them. Don’t leave them wandering alone in the end with the reason of your family, caste, or finding someone better. Remember the assurance that you gave them initially. Only with that hope you gave the other person would have proceeded. Whatever you give thoughts to while breaking up, I wish you have it at first place before giving the pledge of undertaking that serious commitment. Moving on might be easy from one side, but it won’t be the same for the other person. They would have felt you from heart, physically and emotionally. What could be the even more ugliest sin than breaking someone’s trust and just heading away with your own life? Relationship must be a forever agreement; it’s not a let’s-just-try competition to simply be in it and leave when you know it’s hard to win. Think again and again and again if you really want to be in that relationship and then get into it. Think if you have the capability to fight with your family.
A commitment is not as easy as we think it is. It’s a worthwhile feeling with that one person. Be wise while you choose. If not, stay away. The foundation of the trust you built at first shouldn’t vanish halfway. When you leave your so-called relationship apart, you are causing a great misery to the person who trusted you since the day you wanted them.
Days move ahead, but the soul you cheated on would experience a lifetime injury. They cannot love someone else the way they loved you. After being wounded by the wrong person for the right way of loving, even true love would sound suspicious to them later. The bruises remain. They start missing themselves at one point. Be clear-sighted in cases like these. There are high chances it would make you a better human. Loving someone somewhere by making someone cry isn’t where your life gains a meaning. Understand and act real.
To someone who has gone/is going through this pain:
It’s truly not okay. But still, leave it right there. Build back and fight for your real needs. They simply don’t deserve even a piece of you as your best days are so near. So it’s okay. Move on, but go on. ❤
© Yashica Priya
Regrets are powerful just like destiny. Destiny is where you end up. Regret is where you grow up. Both are important and must be worthwhile. Everything in your life matters. Learn from the bad; rejoice all the good; let go of what doesn’t suit you; ignore unhealthy thoughts; and love yourself and admire what you are. You are never lesser than anyone or anything. You are precious—pretty fabulous. You deserve to be the extraordinary, because you are one.
Love and Peace to all. ❤️
© Yashica Priya