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May 15 – International Family Day â¤ï¸

 

Whomever it could be, whatever bad they’ve done to you, however they’ve hurt you, it’s okay! Bind one another with pure love. It is the most important today, something that’s given with no cost but from the bottom of the heart. Love. Simply love each other Beyond The End. Family is what built us, and family is what we build together. Give hands to one another and raise with wonderful colours. We make it, not just at once but day by day, again and again. Save it. Treasure it. 💕

If you have a hand to hold on, share with them how your day was, get to taste that hot rice with tasty curry, and one person to serve you food and sit beside till you finish, you win this life. Because at the end, all that will matter is Family.

© Yashica Priya

Love.

Love in not about changing the relationship status on social media. It’s your availability for the other in moments of happiness and distress, a pleasant words of hope that can heal your mind, a warm support by being together, and a sudden meet-up to bring cheers on each other’s face. Just two people, a shared life. ♥️

© Yashica Priya

The Love 🍀

The language of love between us is holy and innocent,
as long as we shower this sublime benevolence.
I’m sure going to fall for you again and again,
since you filled the void in my life with immeasurable joy.
I’m blinded by your love, and we’re bonded with fondness, truly and deeply.
I just can’t resist telling you that you’re my everything;
Of all, my genuine goodness and contentment.
To you, I give the whole of myself, because you’re the best thing I ended up with;
a blessing I never had before.
This bond will be unstoppable and uncontrollable.
You’re the sunshine that gives me light,
and the gravity that holds me tight.
I’m your constant and you’re my permanent.
We both together are perfectly awesome.
My desires are very little, yet so strong;
Love me. Love me endlessly!
I’m incomplete without you.
Thank you for being the classic art of loyalty.
Your love proved that there’s a little piece of heaven on Earth.
My real zone of honest happiness,
I love you BEYOND THE END.

With abundance of Love, Joy, and Peace,

Proudly,
© Mrs. Yashica Priya. ❤️

For a Successful Marriage Life!

Marriage is a fear not just for women but also for men. Men, as well, take multifold responsibilities and build many plans and dreams on the corner of their heart. While a woman thinks of how to build her family, a man becomes lost in thoughts as in how to balance his finances and still doesn’t fail to make every member in his family happy. The real beauty they’re! For a happy marriage, it needs effort from both, the men and women.

*Adjustment.
Respect each other’s choice regardless of who is right or who is wrong. You’re not into a war to decide who wins. It’s a feeling and a different idea from both sides. When one is so strong with what they say, don’t keep arguing on the thing. It’s absolutely fine to adjust and tap on their back. Value your relationship more than your ego.

*Argue and Fight, but Bounce Back.
No matter how well things go between you both constantly, there will be instances where both of you will lose your mind and start arguing. It’s natural. Argue for a very short time and try to resolve the problem as soon as possible. If it feels like never-ending, both of you stop it right there and give it some time. Either one of you will understand and bounce back to normal, which will make the other understand. Things said calmly has more power to solve fights.

*Be Best Friends at First Place.
This is more important. Be each other’s bestest friends. Do all that a friend does. A tease, a prank, a care, a love, and crack every possible lame jokes and laugh. Literally laugh! Lock your phone and leave the social media behind and talk looking at each other’s face. Smile and say things. Discuss about anything and nothing. It makes your relationship stronger day by day.

* Appreciate Each Other.
Even if they look bad, appreciate them, their looks, and all the little things they do. Even if there are lots of people to admire and appreciate them, they’ll look for your comment and feeling about them. Give all your love, hug them, and appreciate with all your heart.

*Trust him/her. Always!
This is the foundation to build a relationship in a more mature way. Good or bad happenings, always believe your partner if you’re sure that they won’t go beyond the limits, because that’s how you have always known them from the beginning. Suspecting is a disease. Once it becomes stronger, nobody, not even you, can save your relationship. It’s like losing a real treasure for a useless imagination.

* Little Space and Privacy.
Fight as crazy as you could. But never take it to the ears of anybody. Anger and fight make you forget about your partner’s good things they possess. It is the time where you puke out all the shitty words against each other. Never ever let anybody know about it. Your fights resolve within hours but gossips go on forever. Don’t let anyone label you both as “Bad”. It’s a disrespect you show toward your relationship.

* Being Grateful and Being Sorry.
They say it’s not necessary to say ‘thank you’ and ‘sorry’ in a relationship. False. If is important to say ‘thank you’ for every little good thing. And, say sorry even when you make the slightest mistake.

*Be Honest even when it’s Hard.
If you ever decide to commit yourself in a good life, be truthful to yourself and loyal to your spouse. Mistakes are fine. But whatever you do, let them know and never repeat it henceforth. Trust is pure and being trusted is valuable. Don’t lose that.

* Remember, Everything has a Solution.
No fight is worthy to extend it long enough or blow it huge. Everything is solvable. Sit, analyze, and talk to each other. Don’t jump to conclusions or imagine to yourself all the unwanted stuff as it will lead to unexpected misunderstandings between you both.

*Be Kind to Each Other.
I know it’s more tedious to watch our words at the heat of moment. But yes. Be careful of what you say. Be kind. No matter what, be kind. Even the simplest swords of hurtful words from you can pierce them deep. It would turn into a long-lasting guilt if the one you love shed tears because of you. Be careful of what you do or say!

Marriage is a beautiful lifetime commitment. Take up the process without fear. It’s a life thriller with twists and turns. Hold hands and walk together. Carry each other with love. Hug them. Raise one another. Watch them succeed. Be their pillar. Being with that one person, you can win this world. Be better and build to be the best. Because, Love is all that you need. Love beyond limits! ❤

© Yashica Priya

May 15 – International Family Day â¤ï¸

Whomever it could be, whatever bad they’ve done to you, however they’ve hurt you, it’s okay! Bind one another with pure love. It is the most important today, something that’s given with no cost but from the bottom of the heart. Love. Simply love each other Beyond The End. Family is what built us, and family is what we build together. Give hands to one another and raise with wonderful colours. Because it’s your “FAMILY”. :’) We make it, not just at once but day by day, again and again. Save it. Treasure it. I’m blessed to be a part of two beautiful families today. 💕

Much Love,

© Yashica Priya 🌸

Happy Mother’s Day ðŸ˜Š

Happy mother’s day to all the fabulous Moms in the universe who is making their families a heavenly surrounding and their house a happy paradise. Each of the woman I met so far is pretty stronger in their own way of beauty. Apart from all physical pain and hormonal changes, they emerge and never stop blooming! They’re nothing lesser but extraordinary and more. Special wishes to a dad, a friend, a husband, a brother, a sister, or whosoever it may concern, who act as a replacement of being a mother to someone in some way at some time by giving complete care and warmth regardless of any factor. Love, Peace, and Prayers to each such soul. ❤❤
Nobody here deserves an old age home. :’)

Much Love,

© Yashica Priya 🌸

I’m the New Bride-to-be. â¤ï¸

So it’s all done. I packed my bags. My wardrobe is empty. All set to leave my family and home. Few hours left. Counting my last hours as Spinster, and himself as a Bachelor. I’m super excited; also I let my tears flow at night. I’m so embarrassed. I have to wake up to get prepared for my big day. I’ve bought all the beautiful dresses and sarees. I’m loving my ornaments. My mehandi prints are fabulous. I’m gearing up my mind to stand there in front of the huge crowd, with my fiancé. My mom talks about how to life further, how to cook good food, when to wake up in the morning, how I should treat his family, how flexible should I be situations and blend with people; and on the other side my dad starts his lecture. Hell lot of advices from both. For the very first time, their goodness and guidance put me in tears instead of ending up in anger. Parents seem to sound so beautiful at some instances. 24 years of my journey with them. So much comfort and love, all these days and every minute. I’m so deeply jailed behind my thoughts. I’ll no longer be pampered under my parents’care. Myself and my very own family is changing into a long-distance relationship. I’m so afraid. So much. What should I do the very next day at his house? Go to the kitchen early in the morning? Greet my in-laws? So, how will they respond to me back? When to take a break and relax on the couch? A sudden transformation from ‘I lay on my bed all day long and my mom never minds’ to ‘I’ve to take up multiple responsibilities and keep up with my duties everyday’. So weird! When should I go to bed and when does my morning shades appear? What if I act strange or funny sometimes in front of my new family? Will they judge me? Will they love me all the time? I’m confused. I’m scared. I’ve to prepare myself for everything and face it alone. New people, new surroundings, new taste of foods, new relationships. I know I can no more complaint about having Upma for my breakfast. Nor I can make something different according to my taste. It is that. That’s how it is supposed to be. I understand. I’ll miss my mom switching off the fan at 10 a.m. to wake me up; and my dad and cousins who always pull my leg for everything and nothing. I’m sure to do my best to satisfy my new family. I bring a promise here to bring happiness to myself and to my new family too. A changeover from being a daughter and sister to a wife and daughter-in-law. What kind of a curse to all girls to leave her family halfway and go just like that! I’ll wait for the day I can visit my family again. Once in a week or maybe twice a month? That is going to the toughest yet unforgettable moment in my life too. ❤️

© Yashica Priya

1K Followers!! 💗

Finally 🥰
Reached 1K followers on BEYOND THE END.
Blog life has been the best. ❤️
Feeling blessed, totally. I still remember those days where I had a life that was lame, and people disliking me. Now, I’m here, known to many people just by name and my writings!
Whatever you do, do with love, passionately.
Believe. Believe hard that you deserve the best. It’ll reach you somehow. Spread Love and Peace at infinite measures.
Many thanks to my beloveds who always kept me balancing with positive vibes!

Thank you all for the constant support and good words that lifted me to write better and improve!
More love, peace, and prayers to each of you. 🤗
To write is to take a chance, but to get noticed is beyond a blessing. ❤️❤️❤️

Much Love,
Yashica Priya. 🙏💗

What’s Wrong in being a Housewife?

Why is that people give a weird look when I say “I want to be a housewife”?
They be like, “Yeah? Seriously? Why don’t you go for a job and be independent?”
This is so irritating at times.
Yes, I have a good educational career, have worked previously, and earned enough. And now when I want to settle as a homemaker, don’t hesitate to listen what a girl like me has on mind.
With the growing economy and intense popularity, the idea of women being housewives has gotten really worse. The understructure of being an “ideal” woman, according to this society today, is to have a decent degree beside the name, a great job, and a well-paid salary. Women who stay at home, preferring to be a 24*7 wife, mother, and daughter-in-law, are in no way lesser than those women who work in a greatest MNC. We too have dreams, goals to achieve, and so many. But according to me, to build my family with love, care, responsibilities means a lot rather than working for a random company’s growth. I work for my family, I help them grow, I wish to be there for them irrespective of wild winds and soothing breezes. If one chooses to stay at home, washing vessels and clothes and helping her in-laws, she is supposed to be called “brave” for sacrificing her personal dreams. I suppose it’s something that shouldn’t be degraded and pulled down with sarcasm or whatever you call it. I have the capability to run to the kitchen and manage my partner’s savings at the same time. Also I’m sure that I’m eligible to get into the workplace I really want to. I don’t see myself anywhere a step lower than other women who earn.
Maybe with this designation of housewife, I hope I can build one or few humans stronger with clarity of mind and feed them good vibes. I wouldn’t tie them with my thoughts but with my soul that’s attached so deeply within us as a family.
Don’t say that I failed to create my life by not pursuing with my career. Not everyone does their career or job with love. Choosing to be a housewife takes real talent and every work is done passionately with lively presence and soft smiles, which I think is most needed to live life fully. The meaning of a family is to grow together with compassion, love, and respect towards each other. It is not a NECESSITY to work. I wish women support each other when they choose to settle down as a proud homemaker! No matter how much we do, we never get a “Wow” or a “Congratulations on your bonus” exclamations. There’s no sick leave or casual leave.
We make “house” a happy “home” to live in. We’re hired once and are forever hired.

© Yashica Priya

The Best Husband?

Finding the best husband is not on any woman’s dictionary. His looks, skin tone, or rugged voice don’t come under the expectations of “best” that women ask for. Having the best husband is decided on how good his family is, how his family treats you and how lovable and supportive they’re to each other. He has to be good and true to himself. That’s where he stands as a man. He should know the ethical formula of treating a woman right. He must treat you the way he treats his mother or sister. If he tortures you, hurt you, make you cry in the name of “so-called love”, it’s not a good move. If he treats his family well but not you, it means he doesn’t see you as one among his family. Yes, I have a Husband who is so sure that every woman has to be treated nice. And he, no matter what, says, “Raising hands or talking ill about her is never an icon of being a great man”. There are few things that we have to learn from few men here and there. There are a lot a difference between a “typical” stereotypical guys and a “man” who knows the value of a good woman. He has always taught me not to discourage or carry hatred.
I’m not too great, neither is he.
But we’re perfectly matched. He knows my life, he understood my hardships, and still calls me his best partner. When people judged me bad, he never addressed me as wrong.

Choose a man, not someone who will constantly hit you with words, anger, or mental pressure. Let go if they’re not comfortable with you. Don’t force someone to love you. Never; never do that. If God destined you to be with them, He would have. Love is a thing that should be carried on with mesmerizing happiness from both sides, but not as a burden to each other. Everyone deserves a happy life. Work on your goals and God will direct your steps.

© Yashica Priya