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Gender Equality

Heading on to verbalize today’s reality, the first thing that bangs on head is the concern about Feminism.
It is hugely believed that women have equal integrity and principles as of men, which is faithfully not. There are some significant rights that a woman has to possess.

Speaking directly forward, women do not even own reproductive rights, in few culture. When you go deep inside about people who have superstitious beliefs, it is clearly witnessed that she has no rights over birth control.
When you call feminism as a goal of gender equality, why isn’t a girl being treated that way? Why is it men’s power everywhere? Does “gender” make the only difference? Why is a woman pointed for everything?

If they say that a female is raped for the way she dresses, what makes a guy rape a 2-year-old girl child?
If a well-shaped structure attracts him, what did he find in a 82-year-old lady? Where did the conception of dressing go here? When a man cannot step-down after seeing a woman suffering in an illegal way because of him, he is not human. Humanity lacks everywhere, and so justice.

Even though if they say that women have enough freedom, it is still clueless what they actually mean when she is not let out alone at night or when she cannot travel abroad to accomplish her dream.
If you cannot watch a woman win, at least do not backstab her from behind. Everytime when she is losing her will to succeed, the backbone of the cultural and economic organization is being ruined.
When the society of men wants women to dress properly, it is the same society of women who wishes men to behave decently.

When you really address about women’s lib or have a desire to influence over feminism, be a feminist first.
Without feminism, women empowerment is altogether impossible. If men cannot support this, at least let them not be male chauvinist.
Think. Support. Be human.

© Yashica Priya

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Breaking Someone’s Trust is a Sin!

Nothing hurts more than being betrayed by the person we love the most. This is so ironically true, and it’s been happening in a lot of cases recently. Betrayal doesn’t always mean of committing adultery after marriage or having another affair during a relationship; being disloyal, false-hearted, inconstant, and breaking someone’s trust are also few amongst. Matter-of-factly, it is too rare to find someone who’s completely willing to dedicate themselves to you. If you find one, keep them. You might get attracted to them, obviously. But before you express your feelings for them, make sure if you are stable enough to handle it till the end. A true relationship is a not a one person’s journey. It must have two strong hearts to fight for each other. If you cannot make it successful, don’t even let the person know that you’re interested in them. Don’t leave them wandering alone in the end with the reason of your family, caste, or finding someone better. Remember the assurance that you gave them initially. Only with that hope you gave the other person would have proceeded. Whatever you give thoughts to while breaking up, I wish you have it at first place before giving the pledge of undertaking that serious commitment. Moving on might be easy from one side, but it won’t be the same for the other person. They would have felt you from heart, physically and emotionally. What could be the even more ugliest sin than breaking someone’s trust and just heading away with your own life? Relationship must be a forever agreement; it’s not a let’s-just-try competition to simply be in it and leave when you know it’s hard to win. Think again and again and again if you really want to be in that relationship and then get into it. Think if you have the capability to fight with your family.
A commitment is not as easy as we think it is. It’s a worthwhile feeling with that one person. Be wise while you choose. If not, stay away. The foundation of the trust you built at first shouldn’t vanish halfway. When you leave your so-called relationship apart, you are causing a great misery to the person who trusted you since the day you wanted them.
Days move ahead, but the soul you cheated on would experience a lifetime injury. They cannot love someone else the way they loved you. After being wounded by the wrong person for the right way of loving, even true love would sound suspicious to them later. The bruises remain. They start missing themselves at one point. Be clear-sighted in cases like these. There are high chances it would make you a better human. Loving someone somewhere by making someone cry isn’t where your life gains a meaning. Understand and act real.

To someone who has gone/is going through this pain:
It’s truly not okay. But still, leave it right there. Build back and fight for your real needs. They simply don’t deserve even a piece of you as your best days are so near. So it’s okay. Move on, but go on. ❤

© Yashica Priya

Puberty

A physical and a metal suprise for every female.

It all started with a pimple on her face and terrible pain on her back.
Changes occured, where she started admiring herself.
She blushed and her face turned red.
She knew that she has to get through this every month, and she wished for the three days to get off soon.

Anciently, how was she treated?

She was regarded odd for three days every month.
She was not allowed to move or touch anything or to cross the place-limit provided, meaning she has to be away and everything she touches is a sin.
She was followed to every place inside the house wherever she goes, with a person behind sprinkling water on the floor.
She was mentally prisoned.
No men realized that she was hurt at times she was handled this way.

In fact, she was pure; she was bold; she was powerful; she was strong.

Yet, she was growing with pains that she couldn’t handle. But it seemed too simple for others.

Every woman has to be honoured, celebrated, admired, and glorified, because SHE IS RECOGNIZED FOR THIS.

© Yashica Priya

Who is “She”?

I wish to dedicate this to all the two-faced men (where ever you exist) !

She is strong enough to meet new people.
She is strong enough to trust them.
She is strong enough to get hurt again.
She is strong enough to believe the lies.
She is strong enough to try harder.
She is strong enough to face variety of pains.
She is strong enough to overcome betrayals.
She is strong enough to take care of herself.
She is strong enough to give another life.
She is strong enough to get through pain.
She is strong enough to stand up for herself.
She is strong enough to move on.
She is strong enough to bandage her cuts.
And moreover,
She is strong enough to heal herself.

Women are not as simple as you think them to be, physically and mentally.

Don’t ever compare a girl with your mother and kill her with words.
It is just that your dad is pretty much a MAN to hold and understand his woman, UNLIKE YOU.

Does this post sound dramatic? There are so many men out there who is damaging a soul of women. Luckily God hasn’t let a few of us that way, but somewhere, a mother or a sister is going through the worst phases of their life because of marriages or relationships with unworthy men.

© Yashica Priya

Take Care of Yourself, Dear Women

Best ways for Women to take care of themselves.

Women, after a certain period of time, become physically weak as they undergo various body changes. It is important to take care of oneself with depending on others almost all the time.
Stress, depression, weakness, joint problems, hairfall, and much more are a few reasons.
Here are the simple ways which can serve you with ease at the worst.
One of the main things is, don’t get addicted to medicine or tablets. People today are blindly taking medicine without doctors’ advice and by very easily getting it from pharmacy. Please don’t do that at all. If you have a headache/stomach ache, take few home remedies that you already knew. Consuming medicine for every simple thing will cage you in a comfort zone, and by keep on doing that, your body wouldn’t allow the automatic healing process as well in the later stages of life. Because, the hormonal changes in a woman’s body play a major role at different ages. The medicine they took at their 30s wouldn’t work at their 40s. Everything depends.
The best way is to have a proper diet, by taking more vegetables and fruits. Eat vegetables that are rich in iron and fiber.
Get enough sleep. Be stress-free. I know it is hard in today’s routine, but be sure to put health before anyone or anything. Also talk to the men in your house to give you the peace and health you deserve. Because more than anything, it requires a man’s stability to take care of a woman forever.

Have a great day all. ❤️

© Yashica Priya

Male-dominated Society

Aren’t we proceeding with the 21st century life now? Being the today’s-world girl, I still don’t find a place where women are given priority at first place as gender plays a major role everywhere, and it is consistent.
They are respected, but not everywhere. They are given a chance, but not in everything. They are bearable, but not by everyone. “But why?”, still remains a question. It is intensely strange to be under an impression if we are satisfied or not with the what the society is providing today.
From a personal point of view, I predict that we, the women, are lacking somewhere. Taking every stage of life, I strongly believe that women are still dominant to men. Aren’t we? Yet in a few culture, they are not allowed to choose their lifestyle or career. Later after marriage, she is controlled by a new family, new people, and new set of rules. She is not included in taking important decisions, be it financially, culture-based, or professionally. She is not even asked an opinion if she is convenient with the decision.
Few men call themselves feminists, but not everybody understands that giving equal proportions of rights to women make them one.
Is that because it is hard to support the opposite gender? Or, whether they believe if women are given the supreme power there will be million possibilities to have them win all around?
She is more plausible while deciding important commitments in everyone’s life and she is actually known for that.
A truth that I strongly believe in is, the act of marriage. Do you know why men are getting married to women that are younger to them? Because, a woman at the age of 22 has the tendency to grasp and understand things greatly, which a man attains it only at the age of 27. Only a very few guys understand their partners at the youngest period.
A woman automatically becomes more responsible when she reaches puberty, but a man enjoys life till a certain period and becomes more conscious and confident about life only after he meets challenges and managements.
I see fathers taking good care of their babies when mother is off somewhere, and women being a CEO at few organisations and men working under them. So it is good to share home, and the society as well. Isn’t it?
And still there exist stereotype-type men who behave as if they are the end of women’s life story. But women are actually the beginners; the issue is they are kept behind the bars of effective stipulations that, according to them, women hold, and are drawn margins by someone. They aren’t lent ears when they want to promote an idea, thus leading to a failure in the growth of society.
Male chauvinist think that our lives are rolled within the place they keep us in. Bringing up the children and doing the households are just a part of life women lead.
Marriage still acts as a source of pain in few parts of the world. As a woman, it feels really hard to sit back and watch other women striving hard to achieve their goals. It hurts to see few women stepping back with a fear she might be dumped off by an unknown. There runs a lot of “What-if” questions whenever she takes a movement forward.
Women have all the capacities to go beyond the fence and make the toughest things happen.
Men might earn really well, but it is always those lovely women at home who save the extras and show up when in need.
Just because few women go wrong doesn’t mean the right women had to be abstained from what they deserve.
A man’s world must be filled with laughter and happiness of his woman, not with heartbreaks and dominance.
Men become less privileged without women which most of them don’t understand.

It is not right to take her as a bonus when she is literally noteworthy.
There exist thousands of tiny dreams inside her heart, which is yet to be watered and allowed to be bloomed.

© Yashica Priya