Happy Women’s Day to all the lovely women out there.
Being a woman, always remember you deserve more of respect, love, and affection. You are stronger than you will ever know. Don’t let anyone degrade your standard. Know that you are born to live the best life. Make use of the ultimate purpose of your existence. Have the courage to walk away if anything worthy is served lesser for you. Because, your excellency is above men. Always have two kinds of attitude; one to make a real man fall for you and the other to burn the so-called men if they ill-treat you.
I love you all. More Peace be with you. ❤️
© Yashica Priya
Every month we recieve a call; a call from the uterus.
Something is on the way.
We rush to check if we have stained.
No, not yet.
We check twice or thrice before going to bed.
And later, we wake up with immense pain.
A war of 5 days.
Laying straight on bed, with those sticky pads rubbing and striking our thighs.
You see us walking with legs wider.
Because it’s inconvenient; it’s so uncomfortable.
We feel so hungry, but really don’t wish to eat anything.
We go to the workplace, and work with physical pressure.
Hell lot of mood swings.
Nobody cares; nor they’re willing to.
After a tiring day, we take a hectic travel to reach home.
We try to sleep and try to find one comfortable position to sleep peacefully.
Hell no. We feel every drop of blood that’s dripping.
The cramps are horrible.
We survive the pain.
We breathe through the rotten blood smell.
We bleed so that the Earth can have enough lives.
Our blood is a Siren that indicates we’re healthy and normal.
Men, take our pain more serious. We tolerate it beyond limits. Just three days. It won’t last longer. Adjust with us.
Red dots on our back are not a shame, but pride.
Because, Bleeding is a Blessing. ❤
“I’m happy to say that I’m on my periods.”
© Yashica Priya
Heading on to verbalize today’s reality, the first thing that bangs on head is the concern about Feminism.
It is hugely believed that women have equal integrity and principles as of men, which is faithfully not. There are some significant rights that a woman has to possess.
Speaking directly forward, women do not even own reproductive rights, in few culture. When you go deep inside about people who have superstitious beliefs, it is clearly witnessed that she has no rights over birth control.
When you call feminism as a goal of gender equality, why isn’t a girl being treated that way? Why is it men’s power everywhere? Does “gender” make the only difference? Why is a woman pointed for everything?
If they say that a female is raped for the way she dresses, what makes a guy rape a 2-year-old girl child?
If a well-shaped structure attracts him, what did he find in a 82-year-old lady? Where did the conception of dressing go here? When a man cannot step-down after seeing a woman suffering in an illegal way because of him, he is not human. Humanity lacks everywhere, and so justice.
Even though if they say that women have enough freedom, it is still clueless what they actually mean when she is not let out alone at night or when she cannot travel abroad to accomplish her dream.
If you cannot watch a woman win, at least do not backstab her from behind. Everytime when she is losing her will to succeed, the backbone of the cultural and economic organization is being ruined.
When the society of men wants women to dress properly, it is the same society of women who wishes men to behave decently.
When you really address about women’s lib or have a desire to influence over feminism, be a feminist first.
Without feminism, women empowerment is altogether impossible. If men cannot support this, at least let them not be male chauvinist.
Think. Support. Be human.
© Yashica Priya
Nothing hurts more than being betrayed by the person we love the most. This is so ironically true, and it’s been happening in a lot of cases recently. Betrayal doesn’t always mean of committing adultery after marriage or having another affair during a relationship; being disloyal, false-hearted, inconstant, and breaking someone’s trust are also few amongst. Matter-of-factly, it is too rare to find someone who’s completely willing to dedicate themselves to you. If you find one, keep them. You might get attracted to them, obviously. But before you express your feelings for them, make sure if you are stable enough to handle it till the end. A true relationship is a not a one person’s journey. It must have two strong hearts to fight for each other. If you cannot make it successful, don’t even let the person know that you’re interested in them. Don’t leave them wandering alone in the end with the reason of your family, caste, or finding someone better. Remember the assurance that you gave them initially. Only with that hope you gave the other person would have proceeded. Whatever you give thoughts to while breaking up, I wish you have it at first place before giving the pledge of undertaking that serious commitment. Moving on might be easy from one side, but it won’t be the same for the other person. They would have felt you from heart, physically and emotionally. What could be the even more ugliest sin than breaking someone’s trust and just heading away with your own life? Relationship must be a forever agreement; it’s not a let’s-just-try competition to simply be in it and leave when you know it’s hard to win. Think again and again and again if you really want to be in that relationship and then get into it. Think if you have the capability to fight with your family.
A commitment is not as easy as we think it is. It’s a worthwhile feeling with that one person. Be wise while you choose. If not, stay away. The foundation of the trust you built at first shouldn’t vanish halfway. When you leave your so-called relationship apart, you are causing a great misery to the person who trusted you since the day you wanted them.
Days move ahead, but the soul you cheated on would experience a lifetime injury. They cannot love someone else the way they loved you. After being wounded by the wrong person for the right way of loving, even true love would sound suspicious to them later. The bruises remain. They start missing themselves at one point. Be clear-sighted in cases like these. There are high chances it would make you a better human. Loving someone somewhere by making someone cry isn’t where your life gains a meaning. Understand and act real.
To someone who has gone/is going through this pain:
It’s truly not okay. But still, leave it right there. Build back and fight for your real needs. They simply don’t deserve even a piece of you as your best days are so near. So it’s okay. Move on, but go on. ❤
© Yashica Priya
Celebrate her importance. When she grows, she builds her own world and learns how to build her man’s world. She is no lesser but much equal to men. Appreciate her sincerity because she is a valuable asset to be taken care of. 💚
© Yashica Priya
A physical and a metal suprise for every female.
It all started with a pimple on her face and terrible pain on her back.
Changes occured, where she started admiring herself.
She blushed and her face turned red.
She knew that she has to get through this every month, and she wished for the three days to get off soon.
Anciently, how was she treated?
She was regarded odd for three days every month.
She was not allowed to move or touch anything or to cross the place-limit provided, meaning she has to be away and everything she touches is a sin.
She was followed to every place inside the house wherever she goes, with a person behind sprinkling water on the floor.
She was mentally prisoned.
No men realized that she was hurt at times she was handled this way.
In fact, she was pure; she was bold; she was powerful; she was strong.
Yet, she was growing with pains that she couldn’t handle. But it seemed too simple for others.
Every woman has to be honoured, celebrated, admired, and glorified, because SHE IS RECOGNIZED FOR THIS.
© Yashica Priya
I wish to dedicate this to all the two-faced men (where ever you exist) !
She is strong enough to meet new people.
She is strong enough to trust them.
She is strong enough to get hurt again.
She is strong enough to believe the lies.
She is strong enough to try harder.
She is strong enough to face variety of pains.
She is strong enough to overcome betrayals.
She is strong enough to take care of herself.
She is strong enough to give another life.
She is strong enough to get through pain.
She is strong enough to stand up for herself.
She is strong enough to move on.
She is strong enough to bandage her cuts.
She is strong enough to heal herself.
Women are not as simple as you think them to be, physically and mentally.
Don’t ever compare a girl with your mother and kill her with words.
It is just that your dad is pretty much a MAN to hold and understand his woman, UNLIKE YOU.
Does this post sound dramatic? There are so many men out there who is damaging a soul of women. Luckily God hasn’t let a few of us that way, but somewhere, a mother or a sister is going through the worst phases of their life because of marriages or relationships with unworthy men.
© Yashica Priya