Break down your comfort zone

Even though you have many directions to divert your mind to make yourself feel comfortable, the idea of comfort zone is the first factor to ruin your creative knowledge. The level of thinking stops when you get engaged where you feel well comforted. I agree that it is a satisfying place to be, and you tend to be relaxed in a much more good way. Say for instance, in a toughest situation one particular song or an activity gives you really good peace. So you get comforted there, and very slowly you get habituated to it. Now, you have chosen your own option of comfort, which is really hard to come out of. Taking into account your job/workplace, few circumstances wouldn’t be okay to sit and work. You might feel annoyed with people or surroundings. But still if you accept all that and manage to proceed with the inconvenience, it doesn’t mean that you’re flexible enough to adapt to the circumstances. It means you’re getting used to a place that is not meant for you. It is just like accepting the annoyance. In such cases, you must deal to search for something better instead of accommodating into the boring environment. Because “getting used” to a bad atmosphere is dangerous since it transforms you into a person you’re not.

How to change this psychological state?

  • Do things which you’ve never done before, in a dissimilar way.
  • Keep track on your everyday activities.
  • Change your view on what you think as reality. (Sometimes what you believe as real is just an illusion).
  • Make time for yourself and decide what even more you are capable of exploring.
  • Observe what you gained from new projects, especially the negatives, because it helps to make you perform better.
  • Execute everything in a slow manner.
  • Have adequate purposes and trust your work.
  • Don’t overreact to anything, particularly to failures. Instead, identify your fears and interact with yourself.
  • Keep stretching your boundaries, as aims have no end.

After carrying out these actions, you’ll be surprised to see that you have enormous mental ability, and would realize that you attempted something you never knew you could. Understand the difference that these are not another way of comfort zone but are one of your habits or activities.

Loved and Lost

Considerably, she was a usual girl. She was hit many times in life. The most unexpected happenings took place in her life. She wished to be alone forever, because she was done with the lies and fake promises around. She was good enough to help others, and at times, had been a solution.

On a random day, a guy came all along her life, gave her the best assurance to be with her at every single time, which made her think why didn’t this happen with anyone else—the obvious first lie to herself. Because she knows how hard it is to be broken, she took exceedingly good care of him and kept filling him with questions, as by making sure everytime if things are better, had meals on time, had a peaceful sleep, and so on. He enjoyed her company, where fell more in love with her. There was never the time he left her. He would ping her at least once a day telling how much he missed her. She had butterflies whenever she heard such words. He took her on cloud nine. Days passed by, as his personal life started affecting him more that he lost concentration and love on her. This hit her deep. She was confused. She didn’t leave him half way. Rather, she would call him or text him, consoling him with words and love. She did the same everyday without any sort of hesitation. She was way too concerned about him that made her forget about herself. She got engaged into him in a profound manner, that she was finally gifted with ignorance.

Day by day, she felt a lack of interest from him. She kept going behind just because she did not want to lose him. Every texts and phone calls of hers went unanswered most of the time. She was crying; he couldn’t see. She was broken; he didn’t care. She was ripping apart; he went blind.
With all the emotions being tied together, she got this to his notice, saying how much she is suffering and how soon things changed. She chewed up most the words, because she feared if her feelings would annoy him. She cannot take more from him. Every nerve and cell on her body loved him with no complaints. She accepted her moronic behaviour and insanity from him without charges or regrets. She did not walk away, but he pushed her with her actions. She kept waiting with the hope that he will return again, and be the blood of her life. She is now just a contact on his life, and knowing this fact, she decided to give up because holding on crashed her literally.

She is not going to be with you again. She won’t disturb you. She won’t annoy you. You will miss her hands when you are down to nothing. You will search for her everywhere, not today or tomorrow but definitely in a short time. You will get so many people who can make you forget her, but at one thing she can never be replaced—the way she cared and the way she tolerated. She lost someone who should had been there at the first place; he lost the girl who was always tried to keep him at his best.

Wait. Wait.

Whatever is worrying you at this moment has a way out, which takes only a minute to change your journey into a beautiful one. Wait for it; don’t stop praying. Repent if you sense a flavour of guilt. Don’t frown. Being sorry won’t let you down, but only raises your standard. Glorify what you have at this moment. Wonders happen only when you believe and give time!

The difference you make

The tiny captures of your heart are those that nobody notice. Your observations are unique, and that is what makes you awesome. You admire the happenings in a beautiful way, which leads you to be the realistic artist one can be.

​The power of mind | Positive thinking

It is your ability to change your mind from the negative flaws to a positive betterment. In general, every individual would have faced at least one regretful incident that hadn’t had a cure at all. I also cognize that few things in life cannot be forgotten. The trace of pain remains the same. It always reminds something about the injury. But I also believe that it is only the capability of your mindset that will change you forever in a more preferable way how you wanted to be. I’m not sure how many have come across the theory about “Psychokinesis”. It is a mental activity of mind power which can make an object move with the help of thoughts. But, there are certain constrains. It cannot happen just like that. First, you got to train your mind for it, to be powerful and concentrating. It needs huge amount of patience, belief, and practice. Although most of the researches have not proved this yet, there are few beliefs that have testified it. I suppose that our capacity to heed something starts from us. I read this book “The Secret” by Rhonda Byrne, which talks about the real-life miracles people experienced. Apart from that, from an article I went through, one true narration that hit my mind deep was about a man whose spinal cord was completely injured in an accident, and doctors gave no hope to get back his old days. Yet, he believed, in himself. He did not mind about what the world said about his ill condition. Instead, he trusted himself the most, saying he will be all set to rock the next year, the same day. He tried a lot, put so much effort as he can, made the impossible happen. He believed nobody but his own thoughts. He trained his mind to bring himself back. As his perspectives came true, he got back to his normal position which placed everyone in shock. That is what I try to say. Coach your mind to make you become the best. Let you have control over your head. You will definitely have many barriers or negativities striking your mind at your first lead off. We will even be surrounded with questions “how? Why this? Impossible”. Ignore all what-if questions because how you take it further will define your output. It is all about you, only you.
One strong faith can gift you miracles.

How is education today? But how exactly should it be?

The policy of educating is completely on an inappropriate realization. Taking the case of today’s educational system, education should be meant of training a child about the basic etiquettes, morals, and good lesson. Studying about Sachin Tendulkar or MS Dhoni might be an inspiration, but how to implement new ideas to become one like them is education. For how many centuries should schools or colleges teach about the theories that Einstein or Edison left behind? Know for the fact that they studied from nobody or no theory. Their discoveries came from their own knowledge. How long should a child study about the x-axis and y-axis in mathematics or how light refracted differently on a prism in physics? Are the institutions really educating them? If education is an art, one should add colours to it to make it look pleasant. What exactly do you think a student is observing in the chemistry lab? The theory how it works? No. They admire how blue changes into pink, and this happens when he/she is not interested to know what is actually needed. Adding unwanted or uninterested know-hows can gain nothing at the end. Perhaps that is the reason why a biology student works in an IT firm and IT students maintain their own business. Sex education was made compulsory in few institutions but why a woman shouln’t be touched wasn’t taught anywhere. The concept of intellectual academics failed right there. Education today is all about adding the graduation degree on the wedding card. Only a very few use it in a right manner. One out of hundred says, “I do this for the sake of my parents and their wish”. For what? Then when to live for themselves? Mental pressure takes place because of not wanting to do what they don’t like and a huge depression of not being able to do what they wanted. This is why the progress is sustained. The basic foundational hinderance it is. The major problem is, temporary marks are valued the most than the permanent dreams. Parents cannot appreciate that 80% grade and worry only about that 20% they missed. If this mindset hadn’t been at place, many lives would’ve been saved. 

If you’re reading this, remember you are mature enough to understand your children now or in the future that quality and progress in their favourite field will fetch zen percent success more than studying about history and geography. Definitely basic knowledge about everything is needed, say manners, principles, percepts, but don’t crush them with it. Don’t squeeze their brains so much into something. Let them experience and learn from it. If that happens so, new breakthroughs are really possible.

“Be like whom you want to become”. Help them bring out their hidden talent. One should be their own inspiration. Let them one day say, “I got inspired by myself”.

Hey, you gorgeous!

Stop minding about what others think. Don’t bother if you are fat or lean. Being skinny is as cute as being chubby. Wide eyes are attractive. Dimples are cute. Cheek bones are amazing. Long face or curly hair is fine. The curves or the flat body won’t define you. Your physical structure is extremely perfect. Someone dreams to be like you. May be sometimes when draping a saree or putting on your favorite hoodie you wouldn’t feel great. Instead, mind will be like “this is bad on me. If I had been like that, I’d have looked wow”. That inferiority complexion destroys you. Be proud for being the real you. You are who you are. You’re whatever you love. You’re your favorite color. You’re that wish-to-happen. You’re that dream-come-true. You’re that music you love. You’re that sunset you admire. You’re that kid inside you. You’re that candy you’d love to taste. You’re that destination where you want to end up. Be that who doesn’t give up easily and who is hard to give up on.
Take out a book and smell the pages. Spray the perfume and feel the fragrance. Open the window and let the breeze kiss you. Sit on a lawn with legs wide open and look at the clouds moving.

Be mature enough to understand what life is but be literally immature when you want to have fun and feel every bit of yourself. Be calm. It’s okay. You’re special in some way. Ignore the world. Appreciate yourself and learn from yourself.

So whatever you’re longing for or what you honestly want is already within you, isn’t it? You’re the vision of miracle and you yourself are one supernatural phenomenon. Cheers! 😍

~ỶαšЋ 😊

You can!

​What I’ve observed so far from life is, nothing is lasting.

Time heals everything but definitely not immediately. You got to wait. Wait like crazy. Still, anyway it’ll hurt.

Time taken to heal is the worst period to pass through.

You divert your mind saying, “This is easy. Why can’t I get rid of it. Not that tough”.

You then work for few minutes with great aspiration like you have magical powers.

Suddenly something clicks on mind and you be like “Why me? I’m yet to get over from this”.

Mind changes from “I can sure manage this” to “No I’m weak” in a second.

Fate is fate.

People are people.

But failure is success.

That is where you emerge from. It might take so long from now. Look at the clock. Go with it. Cry for 7 minutes. Take the pain. Do something. There is something within you. Its okay if it is amusement or regret. Grow. One thing can restore you. See what. Search. Hold on to it. Take control. Let others enjoy. Enough regretting. Feel the happiness shortly.

Now this is the origin, not the end.

Arise. Arise. Arise!

Feminism | Gender Equality

Heading on to verbalize today’s reality, the first thing that bangs on head is the concern about Feminism.
It is hugely believed that women have equal integrity and principles as of men, which is faithfully not. There are some significant rights that a woman has to possess.

Speaking directly forward, women do not even own reproductive rights, in few culture.

When you go deep inside about people who have superstitious beliefs, it is clearly witnessed that she has no rights over birth control.
When you call feminism as a goal of gender equality, why isn’t a girl being treated that way? Why is it men’s power everywhere? Does “gender” makes the only difference? Why is a woman pointed for everything?

If they say that a female is raped for the way she dresses, what makes a guy rape a 2-year-old girl child?
If a well-shaped structure attracts him, what did he find in a 82-year-old lady?

Where did the conception of dressing goes here? When a man cannot step-down after seeing a woman suffering in an illegal way because of him, he is not human.

Humanity lacks everywhere, and so justice. Sixth sense matters.

Even though if they say that women have enough freedom, it is still clueless what they actually mean when she is not let out alone at night or when she cannot travel abroad to accomplish her dream.
If you cannot watch a woman win, at least do not backstab her from behind. Everytime when she is losing her will to succeed, the backbone of the cultural and economic organization is being ruined.
When the society of men wants women to dress properly, it is the same society of women who wishes men to behave decently.

When you really address about women’s lib or have a desire to influence over feminism, be a feminist first.
Without feminism, women empowerment is altogether impossible. If men cannot support this, at least let them not be male chauvinist.
Think. Support. Be human.

~ ỶαšЋ 🙂

That love • That pain

Considerably, she was a usual girl. She was hit many times in life. The most unexpected happenings took place in her life. She wished to be alone forever, because she was done with the lies and fake promises around.
She was good enough to help others, and at times, had been a solution. 
On a random day, a guy came all along her life, gave her the best assurance to be with her at every single time, which made her think why didn’t this happen with anyone else—the obvious first lie to herself.

Because she knows how hard it is to be broken, she took exceedingly good care of him and kept filling him with questions, as by making sure everytime if things are better, had meals on time, had a peaceful sleep, and so on.
He enjoyed her company, where fell more in love with her. There was never the time he left her. He would ping her at least once a day telling how much he missed her. She had butterflies whenever she heard such words. He took her on cloud nine.
Days passed by, as his personal life started affecting him more that he lost concentration and love on her. 
This hit her deep. She was confused. She didn’t leave him half way. Rather, she would call him or text him, consoling him with words and love. 

She did the same everyday without any sort of hesitation. She was way too concerned about him that made her forget about herself. She got engaged into him in a profound manner, that she was finally gifted with ignorance.
Day by day, she felt a lack of interest from him. She kept going behind just because she did not want to lose him.
Every texts and phone calls of hers went unanswered most of the time.

She was crying; he couldn’t see.

She was broken; he didn’t care.

She was ripping apart; he went blind.

With all the emotions being tied together, she got this to his notice, saying how much she is suffering and how soon things changed.
She chewed up most the words, because she feared if her feelings would annoy him. 

She couldn’t take more from him. 

Every nerve and cell on her body loved him with no complaints. 
She accepted her moronic behaviour and insanity from him without charges or regrets.

She did not walk away, but he pushed her with her actions. 
She kept waiting with the hope that he will return again, and be the blood of her life.

She is now just a contact on his life, and knowing this fact, she decided to give up because holding on crashed her literally.
She is not going to be with you again. She won’t disturb you. She won’t annoy you. You will miss her hands when you are down to nothing. You will search for her everywhere, not today or tomorrow but definitely in a short time.

You will get so many people who can make you forget her, but at one thing she can never be replaced—the way she cared and the way she tolerated.

She lost someone who should had been there at the first place; he lost the girl who was always tried to keep him at his best.

~ỶαšЋ.

Beauty of Men | The real champions

On an estimation of woman’s achievements, a theme about men should also be contemplated equally.
So, how back-breaking is it to breathe as a man?
It is not just a woman who takes care of the hardships at home, but a man who is being an initiative for all the resources.

If a woman is meant to build her home, a man is building his family. He is running to pay the bills and expenses.

He behaves as an armour to protect his people. His unceasing efforts are neither seen nor exhibited. He struggles at workplace. He strives hard for family’s welfare. He runs the entire family; at the same time, he is being complained about the quality of rice. He enjoys the struggles to please us. He helps accomplish his son’s future, despite heavy burdens inside. He is too concerned about his daughter’s well-being, just because the world is morally corrupted. He carries a series of sensations to give a good life to his wife after 60s. Still, he is judged on things that he couldn’t do. Don’t hurt him. Be sure that you appreciate him for the million little things he does.

Always compliment them, be it a father, a brother, or a husband.
Because,

They care so much but they don’t understand the meaning of expressing it.

He leaves home everyday with a word “Take Care“.

He waves hand while leaving, but turns back once again if you locked home and got back inside.

He earns less, but brings home lots.

He says NO first, but later agrees with whatever you say.

He seems rude, but loves you secretly.

He restricts, but for the sake of goodness in future.

He never appreciates, but is always glad about your good work.

They are innocent, and don’t have a replacement.
Salute; men are special.

Do not judge | Here is why.

An article I read earlier said about a girl who was raped by her own uncle at the age of 10, with the help of her own mother. She tried a lot to get out of the place but could not, unfortunately. At the age of 18, she was helped to flee away by an unknown. She almost lost her life, because she lost her virginity to a man of age forty while she was just ten. She was pushed to have sex for infinite times just for someone’s pleasure. Does a kid deserve this?

Still blaming women? Talking on women’s safety? An oxymoron​ or the two contrast words? They contradict each other. Because woman’s safety always depends on the way the female dresses up or exposes her body, according to few people who sit inside and talk. To all such individuals, a girl tries to fit in her new outfit for the first time and yes it obviously excites her. Whatever she wears, at least a part of her body is left uncovered. You call it attraction, whereas women call it fashion-mania. It is not about how she dresses up, but about how everyone look at her, including a few women who still complaints about the other.

Men judge everything about a girl in a second just by looking at her attitude towards covering her skin; According to “some” men, a girl always meant of having the glamorous body parts and that defines her beauty; women, who also complaints, wear herself the same outfit and feel perfect about it.

You see a woman coming to worship wearing nagh-tee, and people say, “No ethics? No morals?”. We easily speak without knowing what she is experiencing from within. What if she had a cesarean?
A well-dressed girl will not represent a good woman. It all depends on their own life experiences. She might have gone through the worst phase, yet manage to come out to live her life as she wishes. Don’t complain if she is not married at the age of 30 still. We do not know what happened behind. Out of all, stop being so judgemental. Every woman has her own cuts and bandages. She is the cure for herself. She can; she will, in a better way than anyone else. Women might be physically weak, but mentally strong to experience anything.

Bitter Past | The reconstruction

Everyone has a past, which is a closed book one holds. It is not truely necessary to bring it out to anyone, even to your better half, actually. But make sure that your past only builds you up and improves you and not makes you tough.
Each of the women has a worst experience. She was forced for child labour. She was raped for a stranger’s pleasure. She was betrayed by the one she dreamt her life with. She was cheated in the name of love. She was exploited in the name of marriage and drowy. She was backstabbed. She was pushed to the very end of life. She lost the identity of her existence. She was dragged to failure. She failed almost in everything. So men, if you get a girl who went through such consequences, lift her up and lead her future with all your efforts. Wash her hair. Cook her food. Help her succeed. Motivate her dreams. Let her achieve; let her win; let her live. She is too delicate to be dismissed.

For men, he sacrifised his ambition for his family. He did not pursue his dream career because of poverty. He was turned down in a number of interviews. He was often blamed for being unemployed. He carries huge duties on head. He undergoes a severe suffering. He is broken and lost. You women, finding a man is easy. But growing a life with a guy who is going through such heartaches is a real talent. Have on mind that he is fighting for the basic needs. He fights to maintain his relationship. He battles for survival and hardships. Take him as a challenge to shape him and help him grow better. He will, for sure, return it to you in huge.  He can sacrifice anything for you.

All that a human needs is support and motivation. Remember, we emerge from experiences. So, never feel repentant about the dead and buried past. Think what is next. It only raises us higher and higher. There is always a better life ahead of the worst past.

Life in the field of IT

IT is a for-now fashion, and people there are a bunch of dedicated souls. You find the real superstars there.

In a recent study, a report from the Bureau of Labor Statistics, it is found that 43% of the IT professionals work between 40 and 60 hours a week, which is higher than the national general employee average of 34 hours. More than 51% of the employees do not support leaves and time off, it seems.
This is demanding. People who are into it know the combat. It is tedious to be pressurized, and hecticness is honestly felt in the industry. It helps the employees propogate, but it surely misplaces one’s own live existence, especially women professionals because they hold muli-role responsibilities. Women possess very less social support.

The work–life trails are more challenging to all women, and when she becomes physically stressed, her cycle is majorly affected. The regular life is transformed and controlled. In general, both men and women could not execute anything particular in a smooth-running aspect.

One of the primary drawbacks is that most of the employees are not encouraged.  They lack motivation. The need of being valued and treasured is inadequate to the workers. If they start rating the employees in a highly better way, it could simply grasp the full implications of hardwork.

An improved strategy is achieved when they stop bullying the hired person. Geniune and significant rewards are important to strengthen approved behaviour.

Work pressure is a profound depression. The fact is that in the world of technological advancements and innovations, the principles and techniques of computers are of high ranking.
Even though they are merely influential, work life in this field is beneficial, but it sucks blood leaving much less peace behind.

Professional growth should be on mind but it should never affect your personal life. Celebrate yourself and family more.

​I too had a love story | Novel by Ravinder Singh—A short review

This was an ages-ago novel everyone would have known about. Frankly, that was the first book I read in my entire life. It was non-fiction. I totally cherished it as I started reading it. The author, Ravinder Singh, has written about his own life experience. The sensation added to the book was beyond perfect, and gave life to every word. While reading the book, it would not have made you believe if this has really happened to someone and would have sounded like an irony, but the way he expressed his love through every action to Kushi and by words to us will not leave you without tears, I guarantee. It was so melting to reading every line, expecting what is next and how was love beyond that. It was merely a complete happiness the book gave me, with few exceptions may be about which I’ll talk later.
The love between them was absolutely destiny. The trust, care, affection, dreams, and memories they had for each other cannot match anything in the world. It was very sensational and inspiring. It’s been almost 7 years I read the book, but still I have just one question left over it. “Why?” As in, why did she die on the day of engagement? What made fate do it? She had not been a curse or a burden to anybody. She was only dreaming her future with the love of her life, as, how to start of with and what more memories to build. When destiny made them fall in love, why did the same destiny give them a painful split? It is the same thought that will still hurt every reader who has gone through the book. It really hurts, a lot, till now. The climax was a disaster, literally to Ravin and more to the readers. All that he saw finally was she laying dead on the coffin on the day of their great day. How long had it been on his mind? The regret of not being with her when she met with the cruel accident, every second and every minute on the flight on the way to reach her after hearing the news, the terrific pain when he saw her in the ICU hoping she will return back to him, and much more. He was almost dead by heart and feelings. What is worse than this anybody could even imagine?

The story and their feelings were beyond perfect, and I guess that was why the destiny of marriage did not want to happen to them. Love is beautiful, but marrying the one you love is the most beautiful and the even most luckiest thing one will experience.

No matter how old I grow, I will still have the question, “Why?”.

Possess less; celebrate more

​iPhone isn’t happiness, but family is.

Body shape isn’t cute, but smile is.

World tour isn’t achievement, but destination is.

Ferraro rocher isn’t ecstacy, but cupcake is.

Lamborghini isn’t satisfaction, but early-morning cycle ride is.

Aspiring big is perfectly cool. Also, to have tea with friends at a roadside shop is still a dream for many celebrities.
Appreciate simple things in the greatest ways.

Rape | Violence over women

The so-called happy girl, who stayed away from home to help her family, hanged out with her male friend to spend a happy weekend.

They took a public transport to reach home, unfortunately the girl being surrendered under five filthy guys.

Although having a person with all benefits to save a woman, man power did not work there, as he was shaken off.

She was raped. It was her life, but to them it was game and fun making a girl cry in pain. She raised her voice, not bravely but to beg leaving her alone. She feared her life after that. Random thoughts hit her mind hoping to save herself. Blood boiled in every nerve but her hands were held tight not letting her move. Tears poured out of her eyes knowing the truth that the exclusive right of men was wrongly used on her. The privilege of no men helped her which made her understand the conception that her life is built only on lies. Unworthy of respect, every cloth were torn in fast motion. She didn’t know where to stop and what to handle. While one on her, the other four stood by staring at her naked body. The words they uttered were cruel and ruthless. Every footstep they took killed her inch by inch, minute by minute. Vagina bled. Her genitals were torn using an iron road. Finally, she was thrown on the road like an used tissue.

The protest to get justice was really immense, not less. But no immediate actions. And these continued, and are still. News channels and newspapers can only proceed with another rape and cases being closed without any further actions.

To those supposed-to-be men who ruin every life this way, you have the most impure old blood. Try having your tails in limit. You’re destroying a seed that is yet to give life to a million generation more. You’re not killing just one life but many more that was about to be formed. Rape is not a shame to women, but to men’s soul.
Let her bleed, but with her wish as well. Forget respect. We at least deserve safety.

Each of the women thought Nirbhaya was the end. No, she was just the beginning.

​Career: decision-making | Exploring long-term aspiration

While there are a few stumbling blocks for deciding the career, there are even more feasibility and likelihood to reach the career you hopefully need. Career and the way to make it possible rely on the latitude one holds. If you have thousand obstacles and million reasons to give up on it, be strong on one vigorous reason why you want to establish it. Some steps are fundamentally demanded in the process.
First, analyze the analysis. Remember your priority and check on yourself.

Second, determine what to be fetched from the career that is about to be built, as in, the thereafter success and the vibrant conclusion.

Third, decide where to start from and what to start with. This is one of the extensive requirements. Plan everything prior that nothing gets diverted in between. And also, always have an alternative plan if Plan A did not work. (I shouldn’t be negative, but talking on reality that in the case of tiny troubles, having a backup is always greater!).

Fourth, gather every little information and study a lot about the theory.

Fifth, perform the first step and applaud yourself.

Sixth, the most important, do all the above without fear.

Predominantly, in case, if there is a failure, don’t give up because what I consider truthful is, your biggest failure turns out as epic success.

Choosing a career is simple, but the performance henceforth matters the most. Aims are the ability from within. Explore and bring them to light.
Measure your mind and and fight against the distractions on the willingness to taste your dream career. Utilize your strength and proficiency to make it salt and spicy.

Second to none

A drop of water in the ocean doesn’t make any identity. But, a drop on the rose petal is admired and photographed. Life is not always about where you are right now. It is about where your dreams belong to. Prevail where your existence is unique.

Lost in the dark?

The perplexed feeling you earn makes you conclude that you have no more of anything to lose further in life, which totally leads to frustration, meaning letting go of inner peace.
You would have had a bad day. You find that people are big-headed. You think that things did not fall at the right place. This is alright. But wait. What do you call as a bad day?
Having missing the train or the bus? Checking in late for the interview? An error in the output? A scolding from your boss? Complaints over having less of salt in your favourite food? The annoyance about the late delivery of pizza? The burnt toast? A break up with boyfriend or girlfriend? A conflict with best friend? Disappointment about the incomplete work?
So these make one day of your life bad.

But think for a little while before complaining, because these are simple criticisms we face according to the varied situations. When you go through such seriousness, don’t you think they can be resolved?
Up till now, there are still people, whose lives are puzzling.
A man, pulling the four-wheeled bullock cart, receives a salary of ₹50 to run his family.

A lovable father, who is the pillar of support to his family, is dying of cancer. Every hair fall from his head reminds him of his death.
A child, at the age of primary schooling, sells plums at the school gate to take care of his sick mother.

A girl, who went for work, was raped on the street and never came back home.

A woman, being left by her husband, who guided her children with the daily wages, got her legs paralyzed in an accident.

An 85-year-old, despite having a family, is at an orphanage hoping for someone to turn up at least once.

By vocalising about the people whom we don’t meet in everyday life, you will notice all the incredible things you possess. The complications we hold have a way out, because what we experience is just a minute of trouble; but on a pity note, these people are fated to have a life like this. Besides all these troubles, they still hope for a one-step-ahead future. The braveness lifts them up.
Remember that we own something more than such lives. Sometimes, we take life for granted, having not satisfied with what we have. We seek for more—more than what we deserve. The thirst over luxury should be limited. That being so, when things didn’t end up the way you wished, be mindful of the fact that everything happens for a betterment.

ALWAYS BELIEVE.

Women

We go through hard times.

We get ignored.

We get rejected.

We get cheated.

We get pushed beyond the limit.

We get easily hurt with words.

We don’t find happiness with anything, neither with us.

We seem to be worried, depressed, and heartbroken, for no reason sometimes.

We have mood swings.

We go through pain, which nobody understands.

But why? Why is it always women?
Why cannot we have a shoulder to cry?
Why cannot someone give us their lap when needed?

Why cannot we have someone who can tolerate us with whom we are?

Why cannot someone be there for us anytime?

Why cannot someone have us? Don’t we deserve at least this much in life?

Because we women,
Give life; build someone’s home; sacrifice our dreams; create a family; spread happiness; take care of everything even at times of distress. But, IT’S OKAY.

Just remember, there is always one soul, who could do everything for you; who could understand you; who could adjust with you; who could make time for you; who could battle for you. We are born to love and to be loved.

Dear ladies, never settle for anything less in life, because we deserve the best in everything.