NIRBHAYA, 2012.

The so-called happy girl, who stayed away from home to help her family, hanged out with her male friend to spend a happy weekend.
They took a public transport to reach home, unfortunately the girl being surrendered under five filthy guys.
Although having a person with all benefits to save a woman, man power did not work there, as he was shaken off.
She was raped.
It was her life, but to them it was game and fun making a girl cry in pain.
She raised her voice, not bravely but to beg leaving her alone.
She feared her life after that.
Random thoughts hit her mind hoping to save herself.
Blood boiled in every nerve but her hands were held tight not letting her move.
Tears poured out of her eyes knowing the truth that the exclusive right of men was wrongly used on her.
The privilege of no men helped her which made her understand the conception that her life is built only on lies.
Unworthy of respect, every cloth were torn in fast motion.
She didn’t know where to stop and what to handle.
While one on her, the other four stood by staring at her naked body.
The words they uttered were cruel and ruthless.
Every footstep they took killed her inch by inch, minute by minute.
Vagina bled.
Her genitals were torn using an iron rod.
Finally, she was thrown on the road like a used tissue.
The protest to get justice for her was really immense, not less. But no immediate actions. And these continued and are still.

To those supposed-to-be men who ruin every life this way, you have the most impure old blood.

Each of the women thought Nirbhaya was the end. No, she was just the beginning.

© Yashica Priya

May 28 – World’s Menstruation Hygiene Day

I wait for it every month.
I know it aches, but still I wait.
A bleed or a curse or a shame?
After all a bleed, may be; I still wait.
Assuming it to be a good sign,
I endure that pain.
As if knifes striking my lower back,
needles pricking my abdomen,
and heavy soreness on breasts,
my sins are washed away as blood, on the cotton pad.
I sense a sort of inconvenience between my thighs,
as the blood stains were outspreading.
I wake up before anyone to take bath,
so that nobody could smell the disgust on my body.
I wrap it inside a black polythene,
because I don’t want to be judged on that.
I question, are these the cry of women’s body?
Nevertheless, this one week of vital blood
served me the sentence that I’m a complete woman.
Yes, those impure blood is the reason behind every pregnancy.

Women must be brave enough to say they’re off at work/anywhere because of menstruation, instead of hiding behind headache or back pain. It is always better to show the world we are courageous.
Red Dots are Pride. Be proud!

© Yashica Priya

May 15 – International Family Day ❤️

 

Whomever it could be, whatever bad they’ve done to you, however they’ve hurt you, it’s okay! Bind one another with pure love. It is the most important today, something that’s given with no cost but from the bottom of the heart. Love. Simply love each other Beyond The End. Family is what built us, and family is what we build together. Give hands to one another and raise with wonderful colours. We make it, not just at once but day by day, again and again. Save it. Treasure it. 💕

If you have a hand to hold on, share with them how your day was, get to taste that hot rice with tasty curry, and one person to serve you food and sit beside till you finish, you win this life. Because at the end, all that will matter is Family.

© Yashica Priya

Mother’s Day 🤱

Mother—A position every woman loves to hold, be in it, and do the justice for the term. From the moment her child is born and till the last breathe on her deathbed, all that she does is sacrifice. She sacrificed her virginity. She was ready to accept the changes in her body. Her altered hormones though. She tolerated the soreness to breastfeed you. She heard hundreds and thousands of advices to raise you well. She always checked on every meal before giving you. She always made sure your cot is neat and clean, your dresses are ready for the next day, and shoes are well polished. She made no excuses to make your favourite sandwiches for your lunch box while in haste cooking dal and bhindi for the family. She always saved the best pieces of chicken for you and made sure you plate is full everytime. She was falling apart whenever you were sick, but never failed to boost you up. She always believed in you, your work, in your success, and most importantly when you failed. She kept you motivating. She kept you growing. As we grew up, we hurt her the most with or without knowledge but she is never complaining and never sharing her pain with anyone. Because no matter what, we know she will not hate us. We took her for granted, made fun of her, and didn’t care to notice her hardships. Every day as long as she is alive, cherish her presence, be with her, talk to her, make her feel like she is the best human in the Universe. If you’re reading this and are away from her, ring her up and say “Thank you for everything”. Because she loved you with your mistakes and even at her hardest times.

Happy Mother’s Day, to all women here, and especially to the ones who are soon planning to be one. ❤️ Lots of love and peace to you.

© Yashica Priya

What are we up to these Quarantine Days?

How is this quarantine going for everyone? Are we happy? Or clubed with thoughts and emotions? Everyone is going through the same tough situation though. And some are even worse. There are a lot of people outside, who go for daily wages work, without food now. And people who are home with all essentials are not happy with anything around. Few desparately want to go out, meet friends and families, and want to go to job. I know this is so bad for each of us here. Many wedding chapters have been postponed, whereas few took place within a little space.
The major thing that’s happening is misunderstandings and random arguments between spouses. I have been hearing a lot recently, and even today. What not! Even me and my husband went through the same situation a couple of days back. To my thoughts, it is not a big thing to think about it and fight back with your spouse. All of us are stuck in a position where we’re occupied with a lot of thoughts that are actually not necessary. We just face those four walls, look at each other the whole day, and try to go on with time till end of the day. This has more chances of creating madness, anger, and boredom, keeping our mind ideal. It is true they say, “An ideal mind is a devil’s workshop”. We keep giving more volume of thoughts to even the simplest things which is causing all the misunderstanding and unnecessary spat with partner or anybody. This is a time to be together, time to understand each other, being patient with one another, love endlessly. But we all fail at some point. Spend more time face-to-face. Because, this is one agreement myself and my husband are working on. And you know what? It helps! Truly, yes. We keep our phones away, and are practicing this habit of talking to each other on how the day went for both of us; his office work, my day time, some general news. Speaking and sharing helps too much beyond what we expect. Parents, who have children of young age, can spend time with kids and teach them many learnings. Give them little activities, which means not just that are related to academics. It can also be simple household works, helping in the kitchen, a short session in the terrace to get fresh breeze, and teach them physical exercises. Show them there is a lot to perform within this little space. We have so much to do, learn, and keep learning more. Especially housewives, it is not just your kitchen even now. Take care of your body and do something for yourself to build you better. Don’t forget yourselves while taking care of others. Get enough rest, sleep and relax, and stay hydrated. Cleanse your mind and detox your body.
Because, it is important, and you matter the most.
Let’s all try to be stress-free instead of worrying when this will end. Hard times don’t last. Let’s hope for it. We’re coming out of this together.

© Yashica Priya

A Personal Experience.

I got injured back-to-back a few days ago. It was a very painful segment for me, when you have plans lined up and be excited about. Everything had to be cancelled because of my carelessness toward myself. X-rays, scans, medicines! Too painful than one can imagine. While I was recovering from one, another one began. Apart from all these, this injury and pain taught me few things. Take care of oneself. It is important. Our body is our biggest prestigious treasure. Never take it for granted. Let me tell you. If you experience anything different in your body or internal organs, go to the hospital. Just have a little consultation with your doctor. That’s a bigger help you do to your health at Stage 1. It never should be, “After all a stomach disorder, a knee pain, constant inconvenience”. Take if serious. Your body tells you something isn’t right. Healthcare is a priority. Getting well from illness is a blessing. I’m already thankful to it! Moreover, the best thing that happened to me is my families. Phone calls, people coming over to see me, constant messages. Hardest times always prove who all really cares and have time for us. I’m feeling intensely blessed to have them all with me. True hearts care. Best families from both sides! ✨

© Yashica Priya

Please, Let’s All Stay Positive Now. Don’t Panic.

There are so many posts that I’ve been recently reading about Corona Virus. And I see many people sharing more posts on it. Look, it is severe and devastating. Agreed. But the more you look or read such posts, the more fear it will cause within you. Not just you but aslo within others. Updates are fine, but going so deep into it is for no good. I heard few people saying they avoid to see/hear news on Covid-19. When you share updates about it, it is causing a greater inconvenience as it tries to alter someone’s confidence with more fear. Instead of spreading negativity, let us calm down for a while, stay home, hope for the best, and pray. Or otherwise belive that the world is getting better. I don’t believe much in God or prayers, but the least I’m doing is to believe for something good to happen around the world. The Universe has a deeper connection with each of us and our thoughts. When you continuously fear about something bad is going to happen, it will. Living in this situation right now, it is high time we must feel grateful for being safe at home. Thank the place you live in, thank the food that you eat, thank the people around you for being with you. Because, being isolated will be more equal to death. Please avoid having thoughts like “What if it increases? What if it spreads so fast?” or any kinds of What-ifs. Expand your mind to develop positivity. Surely and confidentially say that we’re coming out of this, we will succeed through it. One negative thought blindfolds thousands of positive mindsets around you. It’s time for us to strongly believe that we, together, are going to be happy again.

© Yashica Priya

New Year Eve !

The last day in calendar. I would like to thank all those people who were on my side at the time of difficulties, those who helped me to get through it, those who really lended me their ears when I shared my lame thoughts, those who surprised me with little things, those who showed so much love on me which at times made me think if I even deserve it, those who made me smile and laugh. Special thanks to all you people here in my blog and followers who spent your precious time reading my blog and enjoyed. I feel so full. Thank you so much guys for making this year so great. Let the Universe kiss you with its good will. ♥️

Thank you 2019, for all the lessons and blessings to mastering and moulding me.
Great Cheers to 2020 ! ✨💫 Love & Peace to all.

© Yashica Priya

Loneliness is a Huge Depression

Being alone with nobody around or have nothing to do for a longer time is a serious thing to be treated. Suffering from mental agony of loneliness is much equal to that of extreme physical pain one can go through. People like them become depressed very easily even at the simplest failures. They long for connection with people but still refuse to do that because they’re used to the feeling of isolated and being alone. The most worse cases happen when married couples become divorcees and a sudden demise of loved ones. They undergo a serious phase of irritation; lack of concentration, losing hope in life, afraid to fall in love again, or even doubt their existence anymore. The lame laziness to wake up and feel the other side of the bed is empty, sitting in an empty balcony with two cups of tea but one person, going to workplace and find nothing interesting, cooking the same set of meal everyday and washing the same old clothes, sitting in a room and looking at those walls and getting lost with confused thoughts. There are a lot of things to be done, to cherish, to establish, and to enjoy. It all depends on how to manage and tackle to keep things in order to keep abreast with the perfect illustration of our dreams. The pain of our final breathe lasts just for a minute, but every second of loneliness kills.

© Yashica Priya

November 19 – International Men’s Day ❤

Speaking about the reality of today’s world, most of us discuss so much about women, their strength, how important they’re to the society, and about feminism. We rarely talk about men and their importance. Just as how a woman play major roles to bring up her family, men take equal and hardest pressure to lift every member in it. If women are strong in one way, men are stronger in many ways.
On an estimation of woman’s achievements, a theme about men should also be contemplated equally.
So, how back-breaking is it to breathe as a man?
It is not just a woman who takes care of the hardships at home, but a man who is being an initiative for all the resources.
If a woman is meant to build her home, a man is building his family. He is running to pay the bills and expenses.
He behaves as an armour to protect his people.
His unceasing efforts are neither seen nor exhibited.
He struggles at workplace. He strives hard for family’s welfare.
He runs the entire family; at the same time, he is being complained about the quality of rice. He enjoys the struggles to satisfy us.
He helps accomplish his son’s future, inspite of heavy burdens inside.
He is too concerned about his daughter’s well-being, just because the world is morally corrupted.
He carries a series of sensations to give a good life to his wife after 60s.
Still, he is judged on things that he couldn’t do.
Don’t hurt HIM. Be sure that you appreciate him for the million little things he does.
Always compliment them, be it a father, a brother, or a husband.
Because,
They care so much but they don’t understand the meaning of expressing it.
He leaves home everyday with a word “Take Care”.
He waves hand while leaving, but turns back once again to check if you locked home and got back inside.
He earns less, but brings home lots.
He says NO first, but later agrees with whatever you say.
He seems rude, but loves you secretly.
He restricts, but for the sake of goodness in future.
He never appreciates, but is always glad about your good work.

I have two special men in my life.
Firstly, my Dad. I’ve seen every little and tons of struggle my dad faced to give his two daughters and his wife the best life. He is a great inspiration and the biggest happiness to me.
Second, my Husband. Right now I see him thinking so much about me, my good and bad days, his career, our future. From being an irresponsible bachelor to suddenly being a perfect husband who started carrying a lot of responsibilities.
How beautiful these Men are!
He ain’t going to tell you “I love you” all the time. He might not be available to you when you need him. He won’t appreciate every meal that you do. He might miss an important plan with you. Understand. Understand his life, his pressure, and what he’s going through. Love him thoroughly with all your heart. Your actions or words shouldn’t add up to the burdens he’s already carrying. Let him know that he can come to you, look up to you, speak to you no matter how harder life gets. You’re his only companion and hope.
Thank the special men in your life every single day. They don’t need a reason to be greeted for. They don’t have a replacement. Amongst other men who rape and disrespect women, there are other gentle-hearted men out there who see a mother’s love in wife’s warmth, treat her well, respect her choices, listen to her broken stories, lift her up when she falls, hug her with silent prayers, and admire the purest beauty of womanhood right since his daughter is born.
Kudos to those lovely kinds! More love and peace to you.❤
Happy Men’s Day. ✨

© Yashica Priya

Do You Love Them?

How do you know you love them?

When you see their tears through text, sense how much pain they bear, know the value of that heart, and you feel everything inside your nerves and want to give the whole lot support of yourself just to see them smile and feel comfortable in your presence, know that you’ve literally fallen for them.

© Yashica Priya

Love.

Love in not about changing the relationship status on social media. It’s your availability for the other in moments of happiness and distress, a pleasant words of hope that can heal your mind, a warm support by being together, and a sudden meet-up to bring cheers on each other’s face. Just two people, a shared life. ♥️

© Yashica Priya

Met New People? Don’t Forget Old Ones.

Moving on is the toughest segment one can go through in life. They talk to you, create memories with you, give you surprises, take efforts to be with you. But nothing remains the same throughout. Everything changes. Everyone changes. It is completely sick to expect people to remain the same with you. They find new people, different relationship, fresh career, or their dream environment. The atmosphere they engage into changes them completely. Also, you might have given them so much importance in life. You might have made them really really special. They might have cherished all that you have done to them. But it is not the same always. They never asked you to do all these but you did. Why? Because you love them? Because you want them to stay in your life forever? So that they won’t move aside from you? If these are the factors, it’s time to feel sorry for yourself. Trust me, your efforts, time, love, care, or whatever you do for others come with a expiry date in one’s life. Once it is there, it’s no more of your time with them anymore. Someone else overtakes. They find a deep connection with that new person. Giving lectures, trying to create a bond again, going behind, doing all the possible things to make them stay—no; nothing would really work. If one of you decide it is over, it means it is. Moving on is difficult. Letting go of something that kept you alive is tremendously hurtful. But think. Haven’t you done your best to always keep them at first place? Haven’t you showered enough love to always gel with them? Haven’t you asked them where all their efforts have gone? Haven’t you earlier told them how it feels to be ignored? Haven’t you tried explaining that loneliness kills? Haven’t you told that lack of appreciation creates inferiority? Haven’t you cried your feelings to them? You did everything. Literally everything. Enough being what you are not. Be what you really are. You’re so good to yourself. Treat your body better. Take care of your heart well. May your mind be relieved from all distressing thoughts. Few things that happen in life break your soul, tear you apart, put you lifeless. Move in front. Get back from unrealistic surrounding what you thought was real. It is possible. Push yourself to do that. One day, these will not even matter. Bless them and let it go. From stronger to being strongest.
Peace and Love to all.

© Yashica Priya

The Love 🍀

The language of love between us is holy and innocent,
as long as we shower this sublime benevolence.
I’m sure going to fall for you again and again,
since you filled the void in my life with immeasurable joy.
I’m blinded by your love, and we’re bonded with fondness, truly and deeply.
I just can’t resist telling you that you’re my everything;
Of all, my genuine goodness and contentment.
To you, I give the whole of myself, because you’re the best thing I ended up with;
a blessing I never had before.
This bond will be unstoppable and uncontrollable.
You’re the sunshine that gives me light,
and the gravity that holds me tight.
I’m your constant and you’re my permanent.
We both together are perfectly awesome.
My desires are very little, yet so strong;
Love me. Love me endlessly!
I’m incomplete without you.
Thank you for being the classic art of loyalty.
Your love proved that there’s a little piece of heaven on Earth.
My real zone of honest happiness,
I love you BEYOND THE END.

With abundance of Love, Joy, and Peace,

Proudly,
© Mrs. Yashica Priya. ❤️

Happy Friendship Day ❤️

Friendship, the first relationship born in the outside world.
By shaking hands initially, they became our blood-like relations.
The local hangouts and junk foods gave the best memories.
A laugh together everytime rejuvenates.
Only relation that has no gender domination.
The deep ties, unspoken impressions, and plain emotions did not vanish.
The memories cherished are treasured till the grave.
In between, we all grew up.
The unforgotten birthday wishes are the only communication we feature, and that is how life transformed.
Happy Friendship Day all of you!
More Love and Peace to all good friends! 💚

© Yashica Priya

An Imaginary City. ♥️✨

There is a city, deep inside my heart and in corner of my imagination.
It’s a beautiful place with colourful street light, and pink roads.
Our home is a little stone house,
with cute wooden furnitures and ceramic culinary sets.
Painted in the theme of black and white colours.
We have curtains of solid silver and black metallic balls,
which make happy sounds whenever we slide it across.
There’s a little pond with colourful fishes and two beautiful crotons.
It was a perfect evening to take a walk to the city’s beautiful market.
Little kittens and puppies running around the street corners,
with a layer of rain water covering the land,
and the Love of my life beside me.
A small hut and a old lady selling raw mangoes and amla,
we sprinkle some paprika and salt on it, to give our taste buds a high spice.
Other corner had a man grilling hot chicken tandoori.
Meanwhile, our floral transparent umbrella dripping rain water on the sides,
touching the waist and thighs.
I look above and see the nature spilling it’s blessing on us.
The road looks empty,
just with us and few people taking their way to reach home,
and two sparrows searching for a shelter.
My hair clutch was sliding down, and his watch dial covered with droplets of rain water.
With calmness around, no unnecessary volumes of anything, and his hand holding mine,
we look at each other with undefined smile and love.
There’s no secret in the city,
neither in our hearts.
We converse about all the things we see on the lane, and speak out all the words from heart.
On reaching home, I take my way to the kitchen to prepare his favourite Elachi Ginger Tea.
I pour it in a mud cup, reach him to the balcony, sit on the cushion sofa, and admire rain water dripping down through the roof.
No hiding, no magic, no lies,
but to hold hands, stay around, pull waist, talk about life, and smile together.

An Imaginary City of Love and Togetherness. ♥️

© Yashica Priya

Be Good for No Reason

Why is that people put other people down? Isn’t that a sign of immaturity? Are you really that who judge others, gossip about someone’s life, and treat them low-grade? You don’t always see results in people more common, as you expect it to be. Our job is to mind our own life; not anyone’s. We go around and across a lot of shit. We easily hurt people, with or without knowledge. Don’t grind anybody’s feelings, emotions, and sensitivity. It is so very easy to advice or recommend people with your advices. In real, it is hard to follow it ourselves. I see many people working hard, striving much harder to comfort their families, as in hectic financial statuses, incurable diseases, physical and emotional tortures, and many. How many of us sit back and shut our mouths instead of just saying things on face to directly hurt them? People with enough sense don’t find pleasure in someone’s hurt. When you can judge or talk so much about it, the person who is personally experiencing it know it better than you and is already working on it. If you cannot be positive or spread goodness into a heart that’s trying to heal, you can at least try our best to chuck off all the wound words you’re about to say. Don’t smash someone’s confidence. Don’t create inside them the lack of self-esteem. No matter how good we’re in and out, we’re being judged. Everytime. In every way. There’s no lack for complaints about the physique you possess, the dress you wear, the money you earn, and the atmosphere you live in. We’re adults. I suppose it’s a matter of basic common sense to greet people with love, to send some good words, to admire that one or two little respectful things a human expose. We desparately need to cultivate and nourish the habit of polishing one another with positive attitude. Practice the act of gratitude. Focus on your own improvement and praise other’s success. Take responsibility on what you should be serious about. Stop arguing too much. Let go of the toxic humans and poisonous thoughts. Always remember, “Blowing out someone else’s candle doesn’t make yours shine any brighter”.
Personally, I’ve learnt and still learning a lot on how to handle a few things in life. I’m getting wiser and better each and everyday. Putting in simple words, I stopped giving a damn to a few worthless humans around. It creates more happiness and peace inside me. ❤
Love & Peace ✌️

© Yashica Priya

Blog Anniversary ✨❤️

BEYOND THE END turns 2 today. ✌️
A very memorable and wise path so far. It’s all because of Her I’m here today. So many writings, articles, poetries, which gave me name and happiness! It’s good when people see me after so long and don’t ask about me but my blog! I’m so happy that my blog has impacted so many ✨ The real sunshine of my life. I literally want to do more of it and go beyond miles. I haven’t been blogging frequently for a while, but I’ve decided to give it a full shot again and start with the same effort. Thank you all for loving my contents and encouraging me to become what I’m today. I love you all. ❤️
Reached 1.1K followers, and now to continue further with 170 posts. More to go🥰
Love & Peace.

~ Yashica Priya ✨

‘Coz I wanted to talk on this!

So. This was one post I came across recently.
The first lame question on it is, “Still you think Girls are weak?”
Dear girls,
First of all, nobody call us weak. There are most of the men who admire women, their hardships, their sacrifices, and their responsibilities. No part in your body is weak except your mind that enables you to question again and again “Do you call us weak? Are we just this and are we just that?” and so many as such. Please! You’re strong and everyone knows it. Stop expecting anyone to describe your strength. Talk about it with pride instead of questioning your own capability. Chill. You’re stronger than men. Not weak at all. Cool.

Well, the content of the post is just a part. The major part in the screenshot is the comment. It seems women are “bragging” over their periods and pregnancy.
How firm and talented!
Hold on.
@Varsha Kadam.
I understand that these are the common pain that woman has to undergo as she’s left with no choice. Describing about these pains are not “bragging”, as you say. Life of a girl changes very frequently. It is not that easy. “We have it because we’re built like that and definitely not an achievement.” True. Maybe it’s called “bragging” to your sixth sense. But I call it a sense of “gratification” and “fulfilment”. You have the difference here. If men could “brag” about their first Goa trip, their first own car, their first booze with friends, their first onsite offer, I think women “bragging” just about their periods and pregnancy is no big deal. It is not a fuss. It is basic.
Men change cities for job but they don’t change families. They don’t have to bend to rules from a random family.
Not a sharp point from you, girl. It’s a tight slap you’ve given for yourself.
It is so sick to see women downgrading other women. Shame! No need to support. But at least shut up.

© Yashica Priya

For a Successful Marriage Life!

Marriage is a fear not just for women but also for men. Men, as well, take multifold responsibilities and build many plans and dreams on the corner of their heart. While a woman thinks of how to build her family, a man becomes lost in thoughts as in how to balance his finances and still doesn’t fail to make every member in his family happy. The real beauty they’re! For a happy marriage, it needs effort from both, the men and women.

*Adjustment.
Respect each other’s choice regardless of who is right or who is wrong. You’re not into a war to decide who wins. It’s a feeling and a different idea from both sides. When one is so strong with what they say, don’t keep arguing on the thing. It’s absolutely fine to adjust and tap on their back. Value your relationship more than your ego.

*Argue and Fight, but Bounce Back.
No matter how well things go between you both constantly, there will be instances where both of you will lose your mind and start arguing. It’s natural. Argue for a very short time and try to resolve the problem as soon as possible. If it feels like never-ending, both of you stop it right there and give it some time. Either one of you will understand and bounce back to normal, which will make the other understand. Things said calmly has more power to solve fights.

*Be Best Friends at First Place.
This is more important. Be each other’s bestest friends. Do all that a friend does. A tease, a prank, a care, a love, and crack every possible lame jokes and laugh. Literally laugh! Lock your phone and leave the social media behind and talk looking at each other’s face. Smile and say things. Discuss about anything and nothing. It makes your relationship stronger day by day.

* Appreciate Each Other.
Even if they look bad, appreciate them, their looks, and all the little things they do. Even if there are lots of people to admire and appreciate them, they’ll look for your comment and feeling about them. Give all your love, hug them, and appreciate with all your heart.

*Trust him/her. Always!
This is the foundation to build a relationship in a more mature way. Good or bad happenings, always believe your partner if you’re sure that they won’t go beyond the limits, because that’s how you have always known them from the beginning. Suspecting is a disease. Once it becomes stronger, nobody, not even you, can save your relationship. It’s like losing a real treasure for a useless imagination.

* Little Space and Privacy.
Fight as crazy as you could. But never take it to the ears of anybody. Anger and fight make you forget about your partner’s good things they possess. It is the time where you puke out all the shitty words against each other. Never ever let anybody know about it. Your fights resolve within hours but gossips go on forever. Don’t let anyone label you both as “Bad”. It’s a disrespect you show toward your relationship.

* Being Grateful and Being Sorry.
They say it’s not necessary to say ‘thank you’ and ‘sorry’ in a relationship. False. If is important to say ‘thank you’ for every little good thing. And, say sorry even when you make the slightest mistake.

*Be Honest even when it’s Hard.
If you ever decide to commit yourself in a good life, be truthful to yourself and loyal to your spouse. Mistakes are fine. But whatever you do, let them know and never repeat it henceforth. Trust is pure and being trusted is valuable. Don’t lose that.

* Remember, Everything has a Solution.
No fight is worthy to extend it long enough or blow it huge. Everything is solvable. Sit, analyze, and talk to each other. Don’t jump to conclusions or imagine to yourself all the unwanted stuff as it will lead to unexpected misunderstandings between you both.

*Be Kind to Each Other.
I know it’s more tedious to watch our words at the heat of moment. But yes. Be careful of what you say. Be kind. No matter what, be kind. Even the simplest swords of hurtful words from you can pierce them deep. It would turn into a long-lasting guilt if the one you love shed tears because of you. Be careful of what you do or say!

Marriage is a beautiful lifetime commitment. Take up the process without fear. It’s a life thriller with twists and turns. Hold hands and walk together. Carry each other with love. Hug them. Raise one another. Watch them succeed. Be their pillar. Being with that one person, you can win this world. Be better and build to be the best. Because, Love is all that you need. Love beyond limits! ❤

© Yashica Priya

May 15 – International Family Day ❤️

Whomever it could be, whatever bad they’ve done to you, however they’ve hurt you, it’s okay! Bind one another with pure love. It is the most important today, something that’s given with no cost but from the bottom of the heart. Love. Simply love each other Beyond The End. Family is what built us, and family is what we build together. Give hands to one another and raise with wonderful colours. Because it’s your “FAMILY”. :’) We make it, not just at once but day by day, again and again. Save it. Treasure it. I’m blessed to be a part of two beautiful families today. 💕

Much Love,

© Yashica Priya 🌸

Happy Mother’s Day 😊

Happy mother’s day to all the fabulous Moms in the universe who is making their families a heavenly surrounding and their house a happy paradise. Each of the woman I met so far is pretty stronger in their own way of beauty. Apart from all physical pain and hormonal changes, they emerge and never stop blooming! They’re nothing lesser but extraordinary and more. Special wishes to a dad, a friend, a husband, a brother, a sister, or whosoever it may concern, who act as a replacement of being a mother to someone in some way at some time by giving complete care and warmth regardless of any factor. Love, Peace, and Prayers to each such soul. ❤❤
Nobody here deserves an old age home. :’)

Much Love,

© Yashica Priya 🌸

I’m the New Bride-to-be. ❤️

So it’s all done. I packed my bags. My wardrobe is empty. All set to leave my family and home. Few hours left. Counting my last hours as Spinster, and himself as a Bachelor. I’m super excited; also I let my tears flow at night. I’m so embarrassed. I have to wake up to get prepared for my big day. I’ve bought all the beautiful dresses and sarees. I’m loving my ornaments. My mehandi prints are fabulous. I’m gearing up my mind to stand there in front of the huge crowd, with my fiancé. My mom talks about how to life further, how to cook good food, when to wake up in the morning, how I should treat his family, how flexible should I be situations and blend with people; and on the other side my dad starts his lecture. Hell lot of advices from both. For the very first time, their goodness and guidance put me in tears instead of ending up in anger. Parents seem to sound so beautiful at some instances. 24 years of my journey with them. So much comfort and love, all these days and every minute. I’m so deeply jailed behind my thoughts. I’ll no longer be pampered under my parents’care. Myself and my very own family is changing into a long-distance relationship. I’m so afraid. So much. What should I do the very next day at his house? Go to the kitchen early in the morning? Greet my in-laws? So, how will they respond to me back? When to take a break and relax on the couch? A sudden transformation from ‘I lay on my bed all day long and my mom never minds’ to ‘I’ve to take up multiple responsibilities and keep up with my duties everyday’. So weird! When should I go to bed and when does my morning shades appear? What if I act strange or funny sometimes in front of my new family? Will they judge me? Will they love me all the time? I’m confused. I’m scared. I’ve to prepare myself for everything and face it alone. New people, new surroundings, new taste of foods, new relationships. I know I can no more complaint about having Upma for my breakfast. Nor I can make something different according to my taste. It is that. That’s how it is supposed to be. I understand. I’ll miss my mom switching off the fan at 10 a.m. to wake me up; and my dad and cousins who always pull my leg for everything and nothing. I’m sure to do my best to satisfy my new family. I bring a promise here to bring happiness to myself and to my new family too. A changeover from being a daughter and sister to a wife and daughter-in-law. What kind of a curse to all girls to leave her family halfway and go just like that! I’ll wait for the day I can visit my family again. Once in a week or maybe twice a month? That is going to the toughest yet unforgettable moment in my life too. ❤️

© Yashica Priya

1K Followers!! 💗

Finally 🥰
Reached 1K followers on BEYOND THE END.
Blog life has been the best. ❤️
Feeling blessed, totally. I still remember those days where I had a life that was lame, and people disliking me. Now, I’m here, known to many people just by name and my writings!
Whatever you do, do with love, passionately.
Believe. Believe hard that you deserve the best. It’ll reach you somehow. Spread Love and Peace at infinite measures.
Many thanks to my beloveds who always kept me balancing with positive vibes!

Thank you all for the constant support and good words that lifted me to write better and improve!
More love, peace, and prayers to each of you. 🤗
To write is to take a chance, but to get noticed is beyond a blessing. ❤️❤️❤️

Much Love,
Yashica Priya. 🙏💗

Dear Me ❤️

Dear Me,
One day I’ll stand tall in front of people who pulled me down. I’ll have my shoulders above people who tried to suppress me. I’ll make people regret for treating me bad. I’ll bring my talent to limelight.
One day I’ll make you really really proud.
I’m getting prepared for all the above.

© Yashica Priya

What’s Wrong in being a Housewife?

Why is that people give a weird look when I say “I want to be a housewife”?
They be like, “Yeah? Seriously? Why don’t you go for a job and be independent?”
This is so irritating at times.
Yes, I have a good educational career, have worked previously, and earned enough. And now when I want to settle as a homemaker, don’t hesitate to listen what a girl like me has on mind.
With the growing economy and intense popularity, the idea of women being housewives has gotten really worse. The understructure of being an “ideal” woman, according to this society today, is to have a decent degree beside the name, a great job, and a well-paid salary. Women who stay at home, preferring to be a 24*7 wife, mother, and daughter-in-law, are in no way lesser than those women who work in a greatest MNC. We too have dreams, goals to achieve, and so many. But according to me, to build my family with love, care, responsibilities means a lot rather than working for a random company’s growth. I work for my family, I help them grow, I wish to be there for them irrespective of wild winds and soothing breezes. If one chooses to stay at home, washing vessels and clothes and helping her in-laws, she is supposed to be called “brave” for sacrificing her personal dreams. I suppose it’s something that shouldn’t be degraded and pulled down with sarcasm or whatever you call it. I have the capability to run to the kitchen and manage my partner’s savings at the same time. Also I’m sure that I’m eligible to get into the workplace I really want to. I don’t see myself anywhere a step lower than other women who earn.
Maybe with this designation of housewife, I hope I can build one or few humans stronger with clarity of mind and feed them good vibes. I wouldn’t tie them with my thoughts but with my soul that’s attached so deeply within us as a family.
Don’t say that I failed to create my life by not pursuing with my career. Not everyone does their career or job with love. Choosing to be a housewife takes real talent and every work is done passionately with lively presence and soft smiles, which I think is most needed to live life fully. The meaning of a family is to grow together with compassion, love, and respect towards each other. It is not a NECESSITY to work. I wish women support each other when they choose to settle down as a proud homemaker! No matter how much we do, we never get a “Wow” or a “Congratulations on your bonus” exclamations. There’s no sick leave or casual leave.
We make “house” a happy “home” to live in. We’re hired once and are forever hired.

© Yashica Priya

Happy Women’s Day

Happy Women’s Day to all the lovely women out there.

Being a woman, always remember you deserve more of respect, love, and affection. You are stronger than you will ever know. Don’t let anyone degrade your standard. Know that you are born to live the best life. Make use of the ultimate purpose of your existence. Have the courage to walk away if anything worthy is served lesser for you. Because, your excellency is above men. Always have two kinds of attitude; one to make a real man fall for you and the other to burn the so-called men if they ill-treat you.

I love you all. More Peace be with you. ❤️

© Yashica Priya

Women, say, “I’m Happy that I’m on My Periods.”

Every month we recieve a call; a call from the uterus.
Something is on the way.
We rush to check if we have stained.
No, not yet.
We check twice or thrice before going to bed.
And later, we wake up with immense pain.
A war of 5 days.
Laying straight on bed, with those sticky pads rubbing and striking our thighs.
You see us walking with legs wider.
Because it’s inconvenient; it’s so uncomfortable.
Understand.
We feel so hungry, but really don’t wish to eat anything.
We go to the workplace, and work with physical pressure.
Hell lot of mood swings.
Nobody cares; nor they’re willing to.
After a tiring day, we take a hectic travel to reach home.
We try to sleep and try to find one comfortable position to sleep peacefully.
Hell no. We feel every drop of blood that’s dripping.
The cramps are horrible.
We survive the pain.
We breathe through the rotten blood smell.
We bleed so that the Earth can have enough lives.
Our blood is a Siren that indicates we’re healthy and normal.
Men, take our pain more serious. We tolerate it beyond limits. Just three days. It won’t last longer. Adjust with us.
Red dots on our back are not a shame, but pride.
Because, Bleeding is a Blessing. ❤

“I’m happy to say that I’m on my periods.”

© Yashica Priya

ABHINANDAN VARTHAMAN 🙏

The brave heart took a great challenge to fight against an other country.
They started it all; they killed our people,
but then it was time to unveil the face of our true Hero, Abhinandan.
It was a battle on the sky, a huge battle.
Such an unfortunate that he ended up landing on the ground of the opposition country,
where he was caught and beaten up.
Just because he was an Indian and belonged to the Indian Air Force?
He tried all possible ways, ran on all the four directions;
Not to save himself but to safeguard all the confidential documents he had with him.
He tried swallowing a few, but caught in hands of horrific people.
His hands were tied, eyes were blindfolded, and face dripping with blood and sweat,
It did break the hearts of every Indian,
to see our own human in extreme grievance.
The worry we Indians had was multifarious.
He wouldn’t be aware of what was going on, where has he been trapped, or under whom.
Our hearts were drenched in pain and soreness.
But he survived the agony, and in no way his face expressed it.
The courageous heart had the politeness, the same melodious tone of voice, and the bravery to go through it.
Can someone do this much to save their country?
Like a Lion amongst snakes.
But then after we heard that he’s safe and returning back to his Mother Nation,
we felt happiness beyond miles.
We love you, Sir.
You wipped off the empathy we had on you and replaced it with huge proud.
I’m so glad to say that I live in the country where Wg. Cdr. Abhinandan resides.
He is finally back.
Love and Peace.

~ A proud Indian,
© Yashica Priya

The Best Husband?

Finding the best husband is not on any woman’s dictionary. His looks, skin tone, or rugged voice don’t come under the expectations of “best” that women ask for. Having the best husband is decided on how good his family is, how his family treats you and how lovable and supportive they’re to each other. He has to be good and true to himself. That’s where he stands as a man. He should know the ethical formula of treating a woman right. He must treat you the way he treats his mother or sister. If he tortures you, hurt you, make you cry in the name of “so-called love”, it’s not a good move. If he treats his family well but not you, it means he doesn’t see you as one among his family. Yes, I have a Husband who is so sure that every woman has to be treated nice. And he, no matter what, says, “Raising hands or talking ill about her is never an icon of being a great man”. There are few things that we have to learn from few men here and there. There are a lot a difference between a “typical” stereotypical guys and a “man” who knows the value of a good woman. He has always taught me not to discourage or carry hatred.
I’m not too great, neither is he.
But we’re perfectly matched. He knows my life, he understood my hardships, and still calls me his best partner. When people judged me bad, he never addressed me as wrong.

Choose a man, not someone who will constantly hit you with words, anger, or mental pressure. Let go if they’re not comfortable with you. Don’t force someone to love you. Never; never do that. If God destined you to be with them, He would have. Love is a thing that should be carried on with mesmerizing happiness from both sides, but not as a burden to each other. Everyone deserves a happy life. Work on your goals and God will direct your steps.

© Yashica Priya

February 14, 2019—a Dark Day.

That was a heartbreaking incident that took place at Pulwama in Jammu and Kashmir, India. Our brave soldiers were shot dead by bomb blast by the terrorist group. 42 pure souls have lost their life for the nation.

While we gave beautiful gifts for our partners on Valentine’s day, these people sacrificed their lives for their country.
A distressing love story of our Indian Army for country’s peace.

RIP, Soldiers. We salute you, courageous hearts.
Condolences and prayers to their families.

Whoever is responsible will pay for this!

© Yashica Priya

Lost in the Dark?

The perplexed feeling you earn makes you conclude that you have no more of anything to lose further in life, which totally leads to frustration, meaning letting go of inner peace.
You would have had a bad day. You find that people are big-headed. You think that things did not fall at the right place. This is alright. But wait. What do you call as a bad day?
Having missing the train or the bus? Checking in late for the interview? An error in the output? A scolding from your boss? Complaints over having less of salt in your favourite food? The annoyance about the late delivery of pizza? The burnt toast? A break up with boyfriend or girlfriend? A conflict with best friend? Disappointment about the incomplete work?
So these make one day of your life bad.

But think for a little while before complaining, because these are simple criticisms we face according to the varied situations. When you go through such seriousness, don’t you think they can be resolved?
Up till now, there are still people, whose lives are puzzling.
A man, pulling the four-wheeled bullock cart, receives a salary of ₹50 to run his family.
A lovable father, who is the pillar of support to his family, is dying of cancer. Every hair fall from his head reminds him of his death.
A child, at the age of primary schooling, sells plums at the school gate to take care of his sick mother.
A girl, who went for work, was raped on the street and never came back home.
A woman, being left by her husband, who guided her children with the daily wages, got her legs paralyzed in an accident.
An 85-year-old, despite having a family, is at an orphanage hoping for someone to turn up at least once.

By vocalising about the people whom we don’t meet in everyday life, you will notice all the incredible things you possess. The complications we hold have a way out, because what we experience is just a minute of trouble; but on a pity note, these people are fated to have a life like this. Besides all these troubles, they still hope for a one-step-ahead future. The braveness lifts them up.
Remember that we own something more than such lives. Sometimes, we take life for granted, having not satisfied with what we have. We seek for more—more than what we deserve. The thirst over luxury should be limited. That being so, when things didn’t end up the way you wished, be mindful of the fact that everything happens for a betterment.

ALWAYS BELIEVE.

© Yashica Priya

Crazy but Cute !

Treat your spouse like your Best Friend.
Love is not always about saying I love you” all the time. Sometimes it’s about making the weirdest insult on the other and laughing at each other in public. Let the world stare at you both. Few things that are worthy aren’t always meant to be admired. ❤️❤️

© Yashica Priya

Let Them Go

Let them go.
If they walk away from you, let them walk.
Don’t stop them.
Let them go.
If they wanted you, they would have stayed.
If you loved them and if they hate you, let them go.
If they are meant to be with you, there is no doubt they would’ve continued to be with you.
Observe the way they walk away from you. Observe the reasons they walk away from you. Don’t stop them walking. Let them walk.
Nothing is an accident and nothing just happens.
If they don’t need you, it means they don’t need you. Believe that.
If they don’t like you, it means they don’t like you. Believe that too.
Goodbye is a gift, not everyone gets that.
Your destiny is not tied to the person who left you hanging.
They were here to tell you something.
Cry, it is fine.
But too much of unhappiness gives you guilt.
When people leave, it is not always your mistake.
Who wins, when you move on?
Who wins, if you start living again?
Who wins, when you stop sobbing over?
Who wins, when you leave the past behind?
YOU WIN. YOU.
One day, it is going to be over.
Your fear, your anxiety, your anger, your misery. It will be over.
Blame them for what they have done, but bless them for making you a stronger person.
Thank them for showing what you don’t need.
Know that, if they understood better, they would have done better.
Know that, you don’t have to spend time on something that’s taking all your energy.
You can never be happy if you wish bad for others.
I assure that you can never live in peace by spoiling other’s comfort.
Put your happy seeds now, so that it grows well and someday gives you the best shadow of good life.
That is the gift you give for yourself in the future.
From today, create moments for yourself.

© Yashica Priya

Bitter Past and the Reconstruction

Everyone has a past, which is a closed book one holds. It is not truly necessary to bring it out to anyone, even to your better half, actually. But make sure that your past only builds you up and improves you and not makes you tough.
Each of the women has had a worst experience. She was forced for child labour. She was raped for a stranger’s enjoyment. She was betrayed by the one she dreamt her life with. She was cheated in the name of love. She was exploited in the name of marriage and drowy. She was backstabbed. She was pushed to the very end of life. She lost the identity of her existence. She was dragged to failure. She was dominated everytime. So men, if you get a girl who went through such consequences, lift her up and lead her future with all your efforts. Wash her hair. Cook her food. Help her succeed. Motivate her dreams. Let her achieve; let her win; let her live. She is too delicate to be dismissed.

In the case of men, he sacrificed his ambition for his family. He did not pursue his dream career because of poverty. He was turned down in a number of interviews. He was often blamed for being unemployed. He carries huge duties on head. He undergoes a severe suffering. He is broken and lost. You women, finding a man is easy. But growing a life with a guy who is going through such heartaches is a real talent. Have on mind that he is fighting for the basic needs. He fights to maintain his relationship. He battles for survival and hardships. Take him as a challenge to shape him and help him grow better. He will, for sure, return it to you in huge. He can sacrifice anything for you.

All that a human needs is support and motivation. Remember, we emerge from experiences. So, never feel repentant about the dead and buried past. Think what is next. It only raises us higher and higher. There is always a better life ahead of the worst past.

© Yashica Priya

Eiffel Tower, She the Beauty 💌

The highway in the close of day sounded much.

The euphoria of beaming physiognomy added pleasure in bunch.

Taking a walk to the Eiffel Tower,

she checked out to be stunning.

Among the darkest side of the world,

she stood high above all, covering the views in glaze.

With ravishing dazzle and brilliant lustre,

she was grabbing the emotions of million hearts.

As a woodland catching flames of fires,

she dressed up in yellow and multiple lights at the nightfall.

Posing the same way her entire life,

nobody had the lack of concern looking at it.

The firecrackers blasting above her,

she stands like a King without fear.

She is definitely not an abstract,

but absolutely the real smasher.

© Yashica Priya

Pain that Changes You

To all the broken hearts!

Every soul goes through pain that cannot be explained.
The way of expressing is different, whereas few show it by anger, and few by tears.

If something kills you inside, it either means you are still longing for it or it literally tore you apart.
But believe; there is no such pain that can last longer. You sure have a remedy. It all depends on what and how you choose things to be later.

The pain that you are experiencing now will make you laugh after a decade. It does for sure. All that matter is how you move on from what pulled you down.
If you keep sticking to what hurts you, it gives you even more deep scars.

It’s okay to cry, but not always.
It’s okay to realize, but do not be sorry.
But it is never okay to hold on to anything longer which ditched you.
Always wish that nobody should ever go through such hard times like you, and by this, blessings come in your way.

The truth is that you, the one who is weak, would be a cure to someone who is so far from you, who almost gave up on life and searching for a person like you.
You both will make a pleasant life ahead.

The saddest part is we sometimes forget how awesome we have been to ourselves, because problem arises when we start thinking what others think about us. Stop doing that.

There is no beautiful person than anyone who actually believes how strong he/she is.
Choose your life. Take a career. Move on with what makes you smile beautifully.

Pain kills.
Pain is annoying.
Pain is beautiful.
Be an inspiration.

You are a miracle! 💚 Love and Peace to all.

© Yashica Priya

Gender Equality

Heading on to verbalize today’s reality, the first thing that bangs on head is the concern about Feminism.
It is hugely believed that women have equal integrity and principles as of men, which is faithfully not. There are some significant rights that a woman has to possess.

Speaking directly forward, women do not even own reproductive rights, in few culture. When you go deep inside about people who have superstitious beliefs, it is clearly witnessed that she has no rights over birth control.
When you call feminism as a goal of gender equality, why isn’t a girl being treated that way? Why is it men’s power everywhere? Does “gender” make the only difference? Why is a woman pointed for everything?

If they say that a female is raped for the way she dresses, what makes a guy rape a 2-year-old girl child?
If a well-shaped structure attracts him, what did he find in a 82-year-old lady? Where did the conception of dressing go here? When a man cannot step-down after seeing a woman suffering in an illegal way because of him, he is not human. Humanity lacks everywhere, and so justice.

Even though if they say that women have enough freedom, it is still clueless what they actually mean when she is not let out alone at night or when she cannot travel abroad to accomplish her dream.
If you cannot watch a woman win, at least do not backstab her from behind. Everytime when she is losing her will to succeed, the backbone of the cultural and economic organization is being ruined.
When the society of men wants women to dress properly, it is the same society of women who wishes men to behave decently.

When you really address about women’s lib or have a desire to influence over feminism, be a feminist first.
Without feminism, women empowerment is altogether impossible. If men cannot support this, at least let them not be male chauvinist.
Think. Support. Be human.

© Yashica Priya

Admire and Appreciate!

When people commented on a girl’s physique, a guy’s low lifestyle, a man’s salary, a family’s moral values, I wish they complimented those beautiful souls on the little smiles they had while handling unexplainable pain, for the strength they possessed when everything went out of control, for the polite gestures of ignorance they gave when they were made fun of, and for the love and gratitude they still show on their basic standards. They are the most fascinating piece of elegance.
Always learn to appreciate everything and everyone you see and develop the habit of spotting the best out of what you see is the worst.
The badge of being positive is defined in us when we understand that there are really good genuine things around us which truly touch our heart. Strongly disagree to any kind of negative judgements and happily welcome the grace of pure goodness.
Love and Peace to all. ❤

© Yashica Priya