How exactly should Education be today?

The policy of educating is completely on an inappropriate realisation.

Taking the case of today’s educational system, education should be meant of training a child about the basic etiquettes, morals, and good lesson.

Studying about Sachin Tendulkar or MS Dhoni might be an inspiration, but how to implement new ideas to become one like them is education.

For how many centuries should schools or colleges teach about the theories that Einstein or Edison left behind? Know for the fact that they studied from nobody and no theory. Their discoveries came from their own knowledge. How long should a child study about the x-axis and y-axis in mathematics or how light refracted differently on a prism in physics? Are the institutions really educating them? If education is an art, one should add colours to it to make it look pleasant. What exactly do you think a student is observing in the chemistry lab? The theory how it works? No. They admire how blue changes into pink, and this happens when he/she is not interested to know what is actually needed. Adding unwanted or uninterested know-hows can gain nothing at the end.

Perhaps that is the reason why a biology student works in an IT firm and IT students maintain their own business.

Sex education was made compulsory in few institutions but why a woman shouldn’t be touched wasn’t taught anywhere. The concept of intellectual academics failed right there. Education today is all about adding the graduation degree on the wedding card. Only a very few use it in a right manner. One out of hundred says, ” I do this for my parents and their wish”. For what? Then when to live for themselves? Mental pressure takes place because of not wanting to do what they don’t like and a huge depression of not being able to do what they wanted. This is why the progress is sustained. The basic foundational hindarance it is.

The major problem is, temporary marks are valued the most than the permanent dreams. Parents cannot appreciate that 80% grade and worry only about that 20% they missed. If this mindset hadn’t been at place, many lives would’ve been saved.

If you’re reading this, remember you are mature enough to understand your children now or in the future that quality and progress in their favourite field will fetch zen percent success more than studying about history and geography. Definitely basic knowledge about everything is needed, say manners, principles, percepts, but don’t crush them with it. Don’t squeeze their brains so much into something. Let them experience and learn from it. If that happens so, new breakthroughs are really possible.

“Be like whom you want to become”. Help them bring out their hidden talent. One should be their own inspiration. Let them say, “I got inspired by myself“.

© Yashica Priya
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India Misses Him. The Best Leader We Ever Had.

Happy Birthday Sir Abdul Kalam.

We lost the only most valuable treasure that India possessed. While others are marked special for their talents, he is marked honourable for the honest affection toward every individual and for the plain-spoken thoughts. From poverty to great inspiration, without being big-headed for his popularity, he set the perfect illustration for being a real human. He tended to be a kid at heart and a genius at mind. The “actual” President India had in this and upcoming centuries. His deeds and accomplishments are remarkable.

Sir, you’re the most generous and genuine person one would have come across. You still exist in the form of each citizen who is heading toward his/her dream. Thank you to had been the pillar of reinforcement to every Indian inhabitants. You’ll be missed forever.

© Yashica Priya

Never Your Loss

In life you have let people walk away when they want to. Instead of regretting that they left you, make them regret to had missed you. Teach them a lesson that it’s wrong to let go of things soon that is worth having for lifetime. It’s okay to teach people who become illiterates while choosing a life. Don’t have a war with something which you know will make you lose yourself at the end. Don’t suspect your goodness just because someone didn’t value it.

© Yashica Priya

Games are Addiction

If you’re an addict of PC/Android games, try to reduce it as much as possible and as soon as possible. Focusing so much on such is a total disaster that causes low attention to the happenings around you. Games like that are actually blindfolds that don’t let you help you take your real life seriously. You will lack concentration and your memory power becomes really less in days time. And the clarity of your vision gets extremely lower. It’s been recently proven! Please take care and do the needful for your own wellbeing.

© Yashica Priya

Be More of Positivity

When I thought things are not possible, hardwork said, “Try me constantly”.
When I thought no love is permanent, soulful parents promised, “I’m here”.
When I thought I couldn’t move on from past, busy schedules said, “You can, with me”.
When I thought I’m done with life, happy moments said, “I’ll come to you when you’re ready to live without complaints”.
When I thought people hate me, my conscience said, “You’re the best”.
When I thought I’m less at beauty, heartbeats said, “I’m more important to survive; nothing else”.
When I thought I should give up, my instinct screamed, “Don’t; you’re near”.
When I thought I’m not eligible, the next offer said, “This is worth the delay”.
When I thought it was all over, courage said, “Take a risk”.
When I thought I shouldn’t live anymore, future asked, “Don’t you need me?”
When I thought pain is intolerant, hope said, “You’ll have the best days ahead”.
When I thought I finally succeeded, confidence said, “This is just the beginning”.

Do you understand? All the failures are only because of the “I think/I thought” factors you imagine. Always hope for the best and move forward with happy emotions and positive vibes. Trust me they do miracles. There’s always a best thing behind every “NO” and every pullback. Just believe it’s getting better. You come out stronger than before. Set an example and be an admiration. Beauty comes once you bloom. Dream big, because you’re eligible for that. ❤

© Yashica Priya

Knowing Self-worth is More Important

Today, I breathe without people I thought I wouldn’t live without.
I eat to stay healthy for myself without thinking if my once-upon-favourites had eaten food.
I sleep in peace instead of worrying about the “Why me” and “What if” things.
I feel so good about myself today after struggling with lots of injuries in heart.
I understood that I should be only person for me to come before anyone else.
I’m so happy to live life pleasantly.
I became mentally so strong to accept rejections or discouragement at any moment.
I finally realised that it’s never okay to give someone a 100% who deserve only a 40, and it is not acceptable to prioritise someone who should had been cleared from the circle long back.
Always understand that you cannot skip the characters you meet in life. You only can get through them. Remove people from life whom you know are blocking the blessings God has sent you. Life would be much much better once you recognise when to let go of people who add wrong flavours to your mental health, and learn how to master your thoughts.
You will be healed and reshaped very soon. Love and Peace to all. ❤

© Yashica Priya

Puberty

A physical and a metal suprise for every female.

It all started with a pimple on her face and terrible pain on her back.
Changes occured, where she started admiring herself.
She blushed and her face turned red.
She knew that she has to get through this every month, and she wished for the three days to get off soon.

Anciently, how was she treated?

She was regarded odd for three days every month.
She was not allowed to move or touch anything or to cross the place-limit provided, meaning she has to be away and everything she touches is a sin.
She was followed to every place inside the house wherever she goes, with a person behind sprinkling water on the floor.
She was mentally prisoned.
No men realized that she was hurt at times she was handled this way.

In fact, she was pure; she was bold; she was powerful; she was strong.

Yet, she was growing with pains that she couldn’t handle. But it seemed too simple for others.

Every woman has to be honoured, celebrated, admired, and glorified, because SHE IS RECOGNIZED FOR THIS.

© Yashica Priya

I’m Happy with What I Do Today

People usually ask me, “Why don’t you make money through blogging?”.
Frankly speaking, I had no such intentions when I first started writing. I initiated this blog just to improve my language skill. But now, I started focusing on writing more about being positive and how good it is to take life without ego and hatred. Because there are, in today’s world, so many distractions, evil energies, broken hearts, failed relationships, split-apart families and friends. When I write today, I get a lot of feedback like I make few people better with my words. Wisdom comes with experience and life lessons, and hence I believe there are little chances that would make lives better with my articles. Because, not everything can be shared with everybody, and few souls that are longing to cure from personal heartbreaks would feel much much better by reading those words written by unknown people. I’m happily doing that right now. Thanks a ton for all the support. Love and Peace to you all ❤

© Yashica Priya

Whatever You Do, Do With Love

When you want to help anyone, do it whole heartedly without expecting anything in return. It doesn’t mean you will be blessed instantly. Because blessings work in miraculous ways. Don’t do something so that you can get it back. Do even the simplest things with greater love. That is the purest happiness. Making someone happy with your efforts travels beyond words. They will cherish it everytime and remember you. Feed at least two people in a year, present gifts whenever you feel like, surprise your loved ones when they don’t ask at all, get to know someone’s favourite and give them memories from that, visit an orphanage and give all your love to them, grow one rose plant and water it every morning, and there are many more. Love is everything. It exists everywhere, in every little form of what you do. Do with love or don’t do at all. The universe has account of everything that you do. Good and bad. Everything counts, and everything has a reward. You might move ahead, but God never forgets. You sow what you reap. ❤

© Yashica Priya

Who is “She”?

I wish to dedicate this to all the two-faced men (where ever you exist) !

She is strong enough to meet new people.
She is strong enough to trust them.
She is strong enough to get hurt again.
She is strong enough to believe the lies.
She is strong enough to try harder.
She is strong enough to face variety of pains.
She is strong enough to overcome betrayals.
She is strong enough to take care of herself.
She is strong enough to give another life.
She is strong enough to get through pain.
She is strong enough to stand up for herself.
She is strong enough to move on.
She is strong enough to bandage her cuts.
And moreover,
She is strong enough to heal herself.

Women are not as simple as you think them to be, physically and mentally.

Don’t ever compare a girl with your mother and kill her with words.
It is just that your dad is pretty much a MAN to hold and understand his woman, UNLIKE YOU.

Does this post sound dramatic? There are so many men out there who is damaging a soul of women. Luckily God hasn’t let a few of us that way, but somewhere, a mother or a sister is going through the worst phases of their life because of marriages or relationships with unworthy men.

© Yashica Priya

Okay, so Imagine as I Say.

A few years later from today, you will sit on a fluffy cushion in your own apartment with your partner God blessed you with. Your living room is painted in a beautiful colour and your best-loved painting is on the wall. Your children play happily in front of your eyes. You hold your partner’s hand and watch the favourite TV show. Butter popcorn is getting ready in the kitchen. And, the next day is a special occasion and you’re all set for it. You will be ten times happier than you’re today. You have so much money to donate to an orphanage. You feel happy that God has blessed you higher than what you lost previously and feel thankful. Life is good. You are chill!

Doesn’t this sound cute? Keep dreaming and make it happen. ❤

© Yashica Priya

Goals with My Partner ❤️

Yaaay. So that will be the first day with him!

I’m so excited.

Will wake him up with a cup of coffee? Oh, maybe.

I might start the day with quality smiles and much love shared together.

Wow. I’m totally enjoying my life with him.

Oh god! He is completely great for me.

Perfectly matched.

We go for a trip to the hills and click crazy pictures.

So many selfies. So many varieties of foods. Very new outfits. With him😍 I feel great.

We make the most annoying jokes and still laugh.

Rubbish conversations teasing each other and it is totally worth with him. (People, no focused gaze on us, please.)

He teaches me driving in the mid of the highways. He literally laughs, as I make the wrong clutches. And I laugh along with him LOL. We again laugh about this after an hour or so, too.

He sarcastically smiles at my brainless acts.

Crazy soul, he has so much patience to handle my insanity.

Life is good.

Little little quarrels. Small conflicts.

We didn’t talk for two hours.

Aah, no more. “I’m sorry”. Well, it’s done now.

I feel loved.

Now, a huge concentration on family life.

His routines and workloads.

No great bond? Not really, but no time to explore.

Perhaps, now I don’t wake him with a cup of coffee.

We didn’t talk for two days.

I yell.

Not minding each other.

I shout.

We didn’t talk for a week. Crap.

He stopped giving a damn.

Oh shit, I fight now.

Still he doesn’t.

He has time to laugh at memes.

Bloody, he deserves hell.

Anger at peak, he is going to be shot dead by me.

I have my ego now.

I feel all alone.

No soul or no companion.

I wouldn’t like if he is close with some other woman. Cloud nine! I’m possessive.

What is mine meant only to be mine😍

Fights or anger isn’t a part of a great bonding too? It is. That could absolutely be the best relationship. Priorities now change because it has to, for the greatest life ahead.

Sharing him? NO WAY😍

I should be his only CONSTANT! 🎀

© Yashica Priya

Create Happiness

Spread good vibes. Be the reason someone smiles today. Be happy. Bless everyone and everything. Say thank you, even to your failures. Laugh more and cry very little. The world needs more of good people. You deserve happiness. You deserve peace. Let go of what tears you apart. Everything is going to be fine someday, sometime. Nothing lasts longer, even your sorrows. Be the best of what you are. Become the best of what you can. You are an inspiration. You are important to be in this world. You are here to spread love. Love each other. Be silent if your words would hurt someone. Be calm if you don’t know how to react. Congratulate and praise whoever you see. It might be simple for you but it would last in their hearts for lifetime. The world should remember you for your sweet gestures and kind words after you are gone. Love and Peace to you all. ❤️

© Yashica Priya

COSMETICS/BEAUTY PRODUCTS. Be Cautious!

Read the post and then decide to neglect or not.
A deep concern from my side and from what I have read so far and observed.

From a very simple baby powder, we have all grown now to a variety of beauty cosmetics. True right? First of all, what exactly does a cosmetic give you?
A perfection? A satisfaction? A mental pleasure? A temporary glamour? Or whatever you call it, let it be aside.
Have you ever noticed how advanced the world of cosmetic now is? Say, you have thousands of brands, creams, perfumes, lip colours, facial kits, scrubs, and much more. (Let me be precise, and say about the major effects of them.)
Basically, when you use a cream for the first time, you find it way too attractive. But before that, how many of us go through/read the ingredients (which are actually “chemicals”) added to the product, which is listed on the other side of the cover? We do not. May be the are branded and expensive and the chemicals used are mild, we think. But guess, around 15 mild chemicals used together, is it still mild? Be aware of a very critical and supreme reality that our face has the most sensitive skin, especially lips and the skin around eyes. And our entire body has tiny pores that observe whatever touches the skin. Talking about the facial pores, we use most of the products to our face. Meanwhile, on continuously applying creams on the skin, think twice about the later hazards as well. (I’m not completely against it, but using them occasionally is absolutely fine.)
Lipsticks or lipbalm—do you ever know how severe it is? From an observation I say, if you use it without gaps, and you stop it all of a sudden, you can clearly see the colour of your lips changing dark. It happens when the chemicals start exposing the reality.
Heard about “Paraben”? It is one of the preservatives used while preparing cosmetics. Paraben is used in almost all the products, and it has a serious effect on men if they use it. Paraben has the tendency to reduce the sperm count. Can you believe? Unfortunately, it is true. So, in a very few products, there would be mentioned “paraben-free”, if you clearly notice.
Most of the research has observed that chemicals used in beauty products are leading to cancer, especially breast cancer in women (they say, cancer is not a disease but business. Yes it is.)
The more you get addicted to makeup, the more it causes a temptation in you, which is a real-life issue.
Please take this little seriously, before it gets serious on yourself.

© Yashica Priya

Breastfeeding

(World’s Breastfeeding Week; August 1 to August 7)

Cute little soul,
wrapped inside my arms.
The soft fragile head with fluffy baby hairs,
tiny fingers and toes,
and silent breathe with a raw fragrance on body,
giving me sweet gestures on my lap.
I understand that empty tummy whenever I’m given special glance from my baby.
I eat food to secrete enough milk on my breasts for my baby.
Every drop of milk that I give is filled with enormous love.
I wake up at least thrice in the middle of the night to breastfeed.
I don’t sleep properly but I don’t care,
because all that matters to me is my baby’s health.
I crave for rest but try to push out those thoughts from head.
My nipples become sore,
and ache everytime my baby sucks in milk.
They’re not just milk but a strong magic.
It makes my baby’s skin glow by nourishing.
I wear comfortable clothes accordingly
so that I should be ready to unbutton them anytime when my baby is hungry.
A strong bond is built between both of us,
as we share happy stories at those intervals.
A year so close with my child, and
the warmth and love shared would last for lifetime. ❤️❤️❤️

© Yashica Priya

Old Age

“Did you see my skin?
Did you notice my wrinkles?
I don’t matter to everyone like before.
I rarely get attention;
and sometimes not at all unless I ask.
I don’t run to the kitchen these days,
as I couldn’t do that with this energy.
My joints ache so badly,
but I don’t complain to anyone.
I slip down most of the time,
because I’m not able to balance myself.
I wear a simple faded cotton jacket on my lose skin.
My muscles shrunk;
my hair turned grey;
I started losing my memory.
The scars are the deep wounds inside my heart that nobody listens to.
I still remember that pretty face when I was eighteen.
I have surplus amount of love for my family,
but sometimes I break down as my days come to an end.
I long for peace;
but mental agony of loneliness haunts me.
I want to live so much here forever,
and unfortunately there are a handful of medicines on my table.
I’m preparing myself for the last day.
Please don’t cry when I leave, but miss me at least once sometime.
Maybe when you see my bed empty,
or when you see my walking stick on the corner of a wall,
or when you look at a family group photo,
or when you see my favourite old song.
I love you all.” ❤️

© Yashica Priya

Emotional Blockage of a Single Mother

(Suggested by a friend)

Here’s to a single mother, who is emotionally depressed and mentally getting stronger.
Oh, she is beautiful and simple.
Pretty by face and more beautiful by heart.
Life shouldn’t had done this,
so cruelly.
The hands that’s been holding her wasn’t there anymore.
A sudden struggle with the flow of regular lifestyle.
She’s now the one who wipes the tears of her children when she herself is crying to sleep peacefully.
She wakes up in the middle of night to check if everyone is fine.
She accidentally dials to her husband, and then realises he’s no more.
She doesn’t eat healthy, yet prefers to make the best meal.
She’s killed alive with the sympathetic gaze from others.
Left all alone, to raise her daughter.
She blames herself for no reason.
Something often reminds her of her husband, and she simply wipes away her silent tears before anyone could see.
A sense of a strong soul is always around her.
The passionate presence of their past togetherness.
She loved dressing up in her man’s favourite colour saree, but now she’s hiding them all inside the wardrobe.
“She leads a normal life now”, everyone says.
No I don’t; I really don’t“, she whispers to her heart.
She takes care of an entire family without a support system.
She developed all the superpowers to build a happy paradise.
Is it their daughter’s fault to had missed her Hero?
Maybe it’s time for her to be the woman of the beloved family which her dad always wanted her to be, because she deserves nothing less, now or anytime later.

A feeling of compassion?
No; not at all.
I’m so proud of them.
Both of them are just Angels without wings.
So much love, dedication, simplicity, and hardwork. It surely would pay them miracles and blessings in future. ❤
Few people leave us soon because the world doesn’t deserve good people here. 🙂

© Yashica Priya

The Power of Mind | Positive Thinking

It is your ability to change your mind from the negative flaws to a positive betterment. In general, every individual would have faced at least one regretful incident that hadn’t had a cure at all. I also cognise that few things in life cannot be forgotten. The trace of pain remains the same. It always reminds something about the injury. But I also believe that it is only the capability of your mindset that will change you forever in a more preferable way how you wanted to be. I’m not sure how many have come across the theory about “Psychokinesis”. It is a mental activity of mind power which can make an object move with the help of thoughts. But, there are certain constrains. It cannot happen just like that. First, you got to train your mind for it, to be powerful and concentrating. It needs huge amount of patience, belief, and practice. Although most of the researches have not proved this yet, there are few beliefs that have testified it. I suppose that our capacity to heed something starts from us. I read this book The Secret by Rhonda Byrne, which talks about the real-life miracles people experienced. Apart from that, from an article I went through, one true narration that hit my mind deep was about a man whose spinal cord was completely injured in an accident, and doctors gave no hope to get back his old days. Yet, he believed, in himself. He did not mind about what the world said about his ill condition. Instead, he trusted himself the most, saying he will be all set to rock the next year, the same day. He tried a lot, put so much effort as he can, made the impossible happen. He believed nobody but his own thoughts. He trained his mind to bring himself back. As his perspectives came true, he got back to his normal position which placed everyone in shock.

That is what I mean to say. Coach your mind to make you become the best.

Let you have control over your head. You will definitely have many barriers or negativity striking your mind at your first lead off. We will even be surrounded with questions, “How? Why this? Impossible”. Ignore all what-if questions because how you take it further will define your output. It is all about you, only you.
One strong faith can gift you miracles.

© Yashica Priya

Take Care of Yourself, Dear Women

Best ways for Women to take care of themselves.

Women, after a certain period of time, become physically weak as they undergo various body changes. It is important to take care of oneself with depending on others almost all the time.
Stress, depression, weakness, joint problems, hairfall, and much more are a few reasons.
Here are the simple ways which can serve you with ease at the worst.
One of the main things is, don’t get addicted to medicine or tablets. People today are blindly taking medicine without doctors’ advice and by very easily getting it from pharmacy. Please don’t do that at all. If you have a headache/stomach ache, take few home remedies that you already knew. Consuming medicine for every simple thing will cage you in a comfort zone, and by keep on doing that, your body wouldn’t allow the automatic healing process as well in the later stages of life. Because, the hormonal changes in a woman’s body play a major role at different ages. The medicine they took at their 30s wouldn’t work at their 40s. Everything depends.
The best way is to have a proper diet, by taking more vegetables and fruits. Eat vegetables that are rich in iron and fiber.
Get enough sleep. Be stress-free. I know it is hard in today’s routine, but be sure to put health before anyone or anything. Also talk to the men in your house to give you the peace and health you deserve. Because more than anything, it requires a man’s stability to take care of a woman forever.

Have a great day all. ❤️

© Yashica Priya

Time to Think! Today’s Generation.

How mature are we?

Taking the case of a friendship, may be it is all about understanding each other’s differences, as usually said. Yes it is. But, someone who always supports and pampers you is definitely not a good friend but the one who talks to you about your mistakes and moulds you is. “He/she had been in my worst times. They are the reason why I’m here today. They are the best thing in my life”. I know there are few good friends in everyone’s life. But making them a priority at every place is never healthy. Meanwhile, if you get married or be in a relationship at a point in life, there comes the disturbance or misunderstanding between the partners. You don’t have to give up on friends but balancing is way too important. If there is no tendency to manage both of them equally, it is better not to engage into a relationship or marriage life. I’m not talking friendship is bad but priorities do matter a lot. Your life partner should always be the on the first place, no matter how bad your fights are going on. But why are there so much fights? The first reason is lack of communication. The next thing is the lack of concern (as I said, being happy with someone by making other one cry is a worthless life). I have seen a few people with attitude “Why would I change? You have no rights to control me. Who the hell are you to do so?”. There is nothing wrong being like this in life, UNTIL you get a partner. Respect him/her now and be respected later. Because if you have no intentions of changing or sacrificing (permanently), don’t give any false promise relationship to anybody (sacrificing means leaving something permanently). May be you are strong enough to lead your own life, but the other person was completely dependent on you much longer and leaving them like a trash and not minding at all sets you to be an example of a perfect lesson. “Any true relationship is about accepting the way they are. You see your own self there. And that is how it goes”. Who said? It is about reforming the person into something better. But few don’t wish to become better. If your partner says that something hurts them, stop it. That is where you respect them. Doing things behind or when they are not with you, or trying to get a relief for temporary sake in their absence, is called cheating your own life with someone later in future. I’m very sorry to say that there are many dumb people calling themselves as “friends”. How sarcastically they say, “You senseless. He/She is my friend”. Don’t think that you have so much brains. If they had really been a good friend, it would had been their duty to make their friends understand where they go wrong. Jumping around calling that as 10years friendship is literally funny. Hanging out and selfies won’t make a good friendship. When you cannot reshape your friend to a better person, better live alone rather than spoiling them. If someone comes behind you for anything and nothing, it is worthless to get annoyed unnecessarily. If you take it as annoyance, it is. If you take it as love, it is. Deciding this will show who you are. Decide what you are. Being mature is a matter of choice. Everything comes with experience. So let it. Now or later or never. Depends on you.

If this had hurt someone’s feelings, sorry.
If it really made sense, many thanks!

© Yashica Priya

Heart and Soul

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(Just a thought)

She sat in the corner of the room,

asking where her happiness died.

The hunger of joy giving less hopes to life.

She cried to herself, all day long.

Nobody lent their ears,

adding injury to her fears.

Left alone and all alone,

she was paid a penny to her thoughts, at the drop of a hat.

Beating around the bush, changing pain into pleasure,

she felt honoured to be his last wish.

She stopped weeping over the split milk,

as her Prince charm costed an arm and a leg in a time of blink. 💋

© Yashica Priya

Beauty of Men

On an estimation of woman’s achievements, a theme about men should also be contemplated equally.
So, how back-breaking is it to breathe as a man?
It is not just a woman who takes care of the hardships at home, but a man who is being an initiative for all the resources.

If a woman is meant to build her home, a man is building his family. He is running to pay the bills and expenses. He behaves as an armour to protect his people.

His unceasing efforts are neither seen nor exhibited.
He struggles at workplace. He strives hard for family’s welfare.

He runs the entire family; at the same time, he is being complained about the quality of rice. He enjoys the struggles to please us.
He helps accomplish his son’s future, inspite of heavy burdens inside.
He is too concerned about his daughter’s well-being, just because the world is morally corrupted.

He carries a series of sensations to give a good life to his wife after 60s.

Still, he is judged on things that he couldn’t do.
Don’t hurt him. Be sure that you appreciate him for the million little things he does.

Always compliment them, be it a father, a brother, or a husband.
Because,

They care so much but they don’t understand the meaning of expressing it.

He leaves home everyday with a word “Take Care”.

He waves hand while leaving, but turns back once again if you locked home and got back inside.

He earns less, but brings home lots.

He says NO first, but later agrees with whatever you say.

He seems rude, but loves you secretly.

He restricts, but for the sake of goodness in future.

He never appreciates, but is always glad about your good work.

They don’t have a replacement. Salute; men are special!

© Yashica Priya

First Blog Anniversary

Yaaaassss. Big day!

BEYOND THE END turns one. ❤️ It’s her first birthday. ❤
How lucky she’s to me! 😇
Such a meaningful journey so far. This one year of writings has given me the best exposure ever in life. So many good comments in and around the world. I thank each and everyone of you here for stopping by and taking time to read my articles most of the time. It was your support that has brought me here🤗

To write is to take a chance, and to get noticed is beyond a blessing❤️
Life is good with her 🙂
Your compliments have always lifted up my work ! Means a lot. Much love to you all. ❤️

© Yashica Priya

Break Down Your Comfort Zone

Even though you have many directions to divert your mind to make yourself feel comfortable, the idea of comfort zone is the first factor to ruin your creative knowledge. The level of thinking stops when you get engaged where you feel well comforted. I agree that it is a satisfying place to be, and you tend to be relaxed in a much more good way. Say for instance, in a toughest situation one particular song or an activity gives you really good peace. So you get comforted there, and very slowly you get habituated to it. Now, you have chosen your own option of comfort, which is really hard to come out of. Taking into account your job/workplace, few circumstances wouldn’t be okay to sit and work. You might feel annoyed with people or surroundings. But still if you accept all that and manage to proceed with the inconvenience, it doesn’t mean that you’re flexible enough to adapt to the circumstances. It means you’re getting used to a place that is not meant for you. It is just like accepting the annoyance. In such cases, you must deal to search for something better instead of accommodating into the boring environment. Because “getting used” to a bad atmosphere is dangerous since it transforms you into a person you’re not.

How to change this psychological state?

  • Do things which you’ve never done before, in a dissimilar way.
  • Keep track on your everyday activities.
  • Change your view on what you think as reality. (Sometimes what you believe as real is just an illusion).
  • Make time for yourself and decide what even more you are capable of exploring.
  • Observe what you gained from new projects, especially the negatives, because it helps to make you perform better.
  • Execute everything in a slow manner.
  • Have adequate purposes and trust your work.
  • Don’t overreact to anything, particularly to failures. Instead, identify your fears and interact with yourself.
  • Keep stretching your boundaries, as aims have no end.

After carrying out these actions, you’ll be surprised to see that you have enormous mental ability, and would realize that you attempted something you never knew you could. Understand the difference that these are not another way of comfort zone but are one of your habits or activities.

© Yashica Priya

Father’s Day ❤️

He is rude at times. It’s okay.
He mocks at me. It’s okay.
He shouts at me. It’s okay.
He never says “YES” so easily. It’s okay.
We fight a lot. It’s okay.
We hardly spend time together. It’s okay.
But,
He loves me like nobody.
He has given me the best smiles.
He is my good luck so far.
I admire every bit about him.
He is my happy tears! 💚
HAPPY FATHER’S DAY💜💛💚💙❤
Wish him. Bless him. There is no soul like him.

© Yashica Priya

The Elegance of Being a Woman

And God being the most cruelest, He puts it all on women’s shoulder.
He created her physically so damn weak, yet gave her the most fearful pains.
“Oh Jesus! What did we do to you?”
Knowing the weaknesses, first, he tested her with puberty. She survived.
“Crap! What is that sticking over my thighs wet with rustic smell?”. Yes, she managed to keep her body and soul together over the monthly mensuration. She survived.
He kept her whining almost all the time.
She managed.
While she was trying to live life for herself, He introduced Shaadi. A stranger? Who’s he and what’s his family? No idea. She puts her trust wholeheartedly on god and says “Okay”. Every woman is admired for the guts, to completely engage herself into a random family.
She everytime is concerned about covering her body neatly, by even adjusting her saree on the farewell day in front of other women.
Today, she has to be ready to expose her naked body in front of him, as in the name of marriage.
He was the only thing on her mind right at the moment.
Every touch makes her shiver, still she has to allow this now.
She doesn’t know if it was right or wrong.
But later, she was just falling more in love with him.
The memento of pregnancy was rewarded in three months.
She couldn’t believe that she is about to hold the position of motherhood soon.
She took charge and headed forward.
She supervised herself.
Ten long months, He tested her with unworthy mood swings and still asked her to be patient.
She handled.
Normal delivery? “Well, the vaginal wall has to be torn”.
Fine, then a C-section? “The abdomen has to be torn”.
Whatever, she cried and He relaxed.
She decides to fight back.
She does.
Isn’t she powerful than God?
Amongst everything, she has the highest measure of tolerance and adjustment.
She is nothing but a seed that can grow anytime even without the grace of sunshine.
You pluck her from the root, she originates again and this time bigger and stronger.

© Yashica Priya

A Meaningful Life

Don’t we see so many sayings like, “Live your life. It’s once. Don’t care about what the world says. Live for yourself”?

But on a very general basis, somewhere in life you have to live for someone. It’s not always your life. Your life also belongs to people who truly loves you. You got to do sacrifices. You have to say sorry. You simply cannot walk off but stand by and spend time to resolve fights. You have to take care of promises. True love isn’t a simple thing. When you get it, receive it like an Oscar. You see thorns and stones. Walk on it. Go ahead. All that you’d finally see is a breath-taking amazement. Nothing comes easy; if it’s worthwhile, have no second thoughts!

© Yashica Priya