Finding the best husband is not on any woman’s dictionary. His looks, skin tone, or rugged voice don’t come under the expectations of “best” that women ask for. Having the best husband is decided on how good his family is, how his family treats you and how lovable and supportive they’re to each other. He has to be good and true to himself. That’s where he stands as a man. He should know the ethical formula of treating a woman right. He must treat you the way he treats his mother or sister. If he tortures you, hurt you, make you cry in the name of “so-called love”, it’s not a good move. If he treats his family well but not you, it means he doesn’t see you as one among his family. Yes, I have a Husband who is so sure that every woman has to be treated nice. And he, no matter what, says, “Raising hands or talking ill about her is never an icon of being a great man”. There are few things that we have to learn from few men here and there. There are a lot a difference between a “typical” stereotypical guys and a “man” who knows the value of a good woman. He has always taught me not to discourage or carry hatred.
I’m not too great, neither is he.
But we’re perfectly matched. He knows my life, he understood my hardships, and still calls me his best partner. When people judged me bad, he never addressed me as wrong.
Choose a man, not someone who will constantly hit you with words, anger, or mental pressure. Let go if they’re not comfortable with you. Don’t force someone to love you. Never; never do that. If God destined you to be with them, He would have. Love is a thing that should be carried on with mesmerizing happiness from both sides, but not as a burden to each other. Everyone deserves a happy life. Work on your goals and God will direct your steps.
© Yashica Priya
The wrong guy makes you regret for the right things you do.
If he constantly gives you guilt for the care you show, love you provide, and makes you doubt yourself about your worth, it’s high time to let him go.
Look ahead. There’s a better man waiting to hug you for your nonsense. He’s the one. ❤
© Yashica Priya
A heartfelt write-up.
I don’t know where you are and what you are up to.
I don’t know which village or country you be from.
I for sure don’t know what you’re expecting.
I’m clueless if you have high demands over choosing your girl.
I have no idea if you have someone else in your mind.
But if destiny has tied your soul with mine, there’s no doubt we are getting along with each other real soon.
Maybe I wouldn’t be the woman of your choice, but I promise you that I will be that woman you would thank later you didn’t miss.
I might not do the laundry so fine, but would definitely choose the best attire for you every single time.
I’d love to have a detailed conversation with you on the topic you love, even though I have no knowledge about it, just to learn from you.
I cannot promise to bring down the sky for you, but I can make sure to create heaven for you, be it on the mud floor or the concrete floor you keep me on.
I wouldn’t mind hugging your sweatshirt after Gym.
I’d long to brush your wet hair after your shower.
I’d love to spend more time with you in the kitchen every weekend so that we can surprise each other with varieties.
I can bake a moderate cake of your choice and the best potato wedges.
I won’t let the sunlight disturb your sleep by pushing the window curtains aside in the mornings.
I will admire every action of yours; your body language, the length of your charming smile, the blow of your loudest laughter, the footsteps you take, the mild giggles your watch make when you tie it around your wrist, the tone of your voice at different circumstances, the way you’d rest one leg on the other while relaxing on the couch, your strict or sarcastic gaze when I do something annoying, and much more.
I’ll enjoy having a debate with you while watching a cricket match and I wish we both don’t support the same team, which would turn out to be more funny.
Everytime I’m going to look at you with an awestruck sight as you would end up being the tremendous fascination to me.
I wish you fill your phone space with my snaps, which I know is too much to ask for LOL.
I honestly promise that I’m going to love you like nobody and be more supportive to build you high.
Howbeit, I request you to be suggestive without qualms.
Teach me if I go wrong, and love me more when I do it right the next time.
Let’s be blended with lots of togetherness and face any rough patch by holding hands.
Make fruit juices for me and never hate me.
With tons of love,
The girl you gonna fall for soon. 🤗
© Yashica Priya