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Adultery is a Sin

A couple of months back, I came to know a shocking news about a person I personally know. It was Adultery / Extramarital Affair. An illegal relationship one has with someone after marriage. Many cases are happening now. How is that possible? I understand it is completely one’s choice to choose another life partner. But the thing is, why isn’t one proceeding this act in a legal way? They can divorce their wife/husband legally, move on from their children, and marry the partner of their choice. It is really disgusting to even look at faces of these men/women. Also I would say not only the person who does that has to be blamed. The “so-called” better half also had to take equal responsibility for the other to perform this act. It takes both husband and wife to be responsible for a relationship to sustain. If one goes out of the way from this, the other has to be blamed. Being a wife or a husband, I believe it’s okay to keep an eye when you start suspecting something is wrong. Always believe your gut. It never lies. It’s not like you doubt your partner. When they are so natural from the beginning and suddenly things change and there is definitely an alter in their behaviour, the lesser amount of time they spend with their partner, spending most of the time of phone chatting, it is important to keep an eye. It is necessary.
Me and my husband had a conversation on this. He asked me a question. “How will you react if you were in such situation?”. I answered, “Maybe I’ll try to talk and make it clear that we have a family and other responsibilities”, and so on. He gave me a reply depending on my answer. He said, “It is useless to spend life with such a partner. Be it husband or wife. Walking off from that life is the best decision one can make.” The answer he gave was so strong and I think it is sensible, rather than worrying the whole life about the person who cheated on you. In the end what we both personally felt was, neither a man nor a woman, they don’t reform completely anyway after one such thing has happened. It is a completely baseless life one can spend with his/her partner, after knowing about their true nature. As my husband said, moving on might at least save their children’s future ahead.

© Yashica Priya

3rd Year Blog Anniversary ✨

Successfully 😊

And now!! It’s my 3rd year Blog Anniversary today. ♥️ Successfully going on with this journey for the past 3 years, and it is so beautiful so far ✨ I have reached a lot of vision and positivity through this and I wish to continue this with lots of understanding and major wisdom. I’ve learnt so much all these years through blogging, and I’m still learning ♥️ Whoever has supported me from day 1 till today, thank you so very much. Especially my Blog family ♥️ You guys had always kept me going no matter what I face in life. Writing and blog are the best things that ever happened to me, and I’m so so glad that I’ve received 1.2K followers so far with a reach of 33K views and 15K visitors, and 205 posts and 3.7K searches on Google.
Thank you each and everyone. 🙏

Much Love,
© Yashica Priya

Father’s Day !

❤️

He is rude at times. It’s okay.
He shouts at me. It’s okay.
He never says “YES” so easily. It’s okay.
We have fought a lot. It’s okay.
We hardly spend time together. It’s okay.
But,
He loves me like nobody.
He has given me the best smiles.
He is my good luck so far.
I admire every bit about him.
He is my happy tears.

DAD“.
Happy Father’s Day.

Wish him. Bless him.
‘Coz, there is no soul like him.

© Yashica Priya

Depression is Dangerous.

Don’t we plan and think so much of stuff regarding how to earn big, how to become a big shot among the society, and how to earn big circle of friends, and many many more? We spend half of our life dreaming to be big. Because to our thoughts and imagination, we presume that money, being wealthy, owning a bigger firm, and all that make us happy. But there is something even more that’s much needed to survive a better life. It is mental health! It is so saddening to know that people of young age commit suicide. Sushant Singh Rajput, a well-known actor, has ended his life. Honestly, I haven’t watched any movies of his. I’ve just admired him as a young, cute actor in the industry. He is just 34, has more than 10 million followers on Instagram, huge fan followers, lot of assets, many friends. Obviously being an actor he must have partied harder, had fun beyond limits, and everything. But to the outside world, nobody knows what a person is personally going through. We judge and define people’s life with what they pretend to show us. Inside each of us, there’s always an unsaid heartbreak, a hopeless dream, a terrible burden, and fears that are never shared to anyone. One of the most important things in life is to earn one person who will be there for you no matter how hard life gets. Because peace is more vital than earning money or any other factor. There is nothing more terrible than deciding to finalize a day to die in advance. That’s the result of the pressure and depression one is going through.

To anybody going through something, please talk. Please let it out. There are a lot of people who love you, want you, and wish to share life with you. There are lots to cherish about, fight for, and to live pleasantly, beyond making haste decisions to end life.
Sushant left with an example that just money or fame or success doesn’t determine one’s happiness. As long as we’re here, let’s be kind and polite to one another. We go through a lot of hurtful words, unforgettable fights and arguments. But at the least, at the end of the day, we shall try not to be the reason behind a spoilt day in someone’s life. Remember, each day, each minute, each second counts.
May your soul rest in peace, Sushant. The Universe will miss you.

© Yashica Priya

 

The Elephant! RIP Humanity.

“Dear Humans,
Mum was hungry. She needed food for me to survive and grow. You never know her happiness when she saw the pineapple. She blessed you before taking it inside. She felt relaxed a minute before having it chewed. It was a wild vibration I felt. Mum was screaming in agony. I couldn’t figure out what. She tried to survive. After all, she gave up. What was our mistake? You easily destroyed love.
~ The Baby Elephant.”

Offering food is an act of godliness. It is misused in the name of hate. RIP Humanity.

© Yashica Priya

May 28 – World’s Menstruation Hygiene Day

I wait for it every month.
I know it aches, but still I wait.
A bleed or a curse or a shame?
After all a bleed, may be; I still wait.
Assuming it to be a good sign,
I endure that pain.
As if knifes striking my lower back,
needles pricking my abdomen,
and heavy soreness on breasts,
my sins are washed away as blood, on the cotton pad.
I sense a sort of inconvenience between my thighs,
as the blood stains were outspreading.
I wake up before anyone to take bath,
so that nobody could smell the disgust on my body.
I wrap it inside a black polythene,
because I don’t want to be judged on that.
I question, are these the cry of women’s body?
Nevertheless, this one week of vital blood
served me the sentence that I’m a complete woman.
Yes, those impure blood is the reason behind every pregnancy.

Women must be brave enough to say they’re off at work/anywhere because of menstruation, instead of hiding behind headache or back pain. It is always better to show the world we are courageous.
Red Dots are Pride. Be proud!

© Yashica Priya

May 15 – International Family Day ❤️

 

Whomever it could be, whatever bad they’ve done to you, however they’ve hurt you, it’s okay! Bind one another with pure love. It is the most important today, something that’s given with no cost but from the bottom of the heart. Love. Simply love each other Beyond The End. Family is what built us, and family is what we build together. Give hands to one another and raise with wonderful colours. We make it, not just at once but day by day, again and again. Save it. Treasure it. 💕

If you have a hand to hold on, share with them how your day was, get to taste that hot rice with tasty curry, and one person to serve you food and sit beside till you finish, you win this life. Because at the end, all that will matter is Family.

© Yashica Priya

What are we up to these Quarantine Days?

How is this quarantine going for everyone? Are we happy? Or clubed with thoughts and emotions? Everyone is going through the same tough situation though. And some are even worse. There are a lot of people outside, who go for daily wages work, without food now. And people who are home with all essentials are not happy with anything around. Few desparately want to go out, meet friends and families, and want to go to job. I know this is so bad for each of us here. Many wedding chapters have been postponed, whereas few took place within a little space.
The major thing that’s happening is misunderstandings and random arguments between spouses. I have been hearing a lot recently, and even today. What not! Even me and my husband went through the same situation a couple of days back. To my thoughts, it is not a big thing to think about it and fight back with your spouse. All of us are stuck in a position where we’re occupied with a lot of thoughts that are actually not necessary. We just face those four walls, look at each other the whole day, and try to go on with time till end of the day. This has more chances of creating madness, anger, and boredom, keeping our mind ideal. It is true they say, “An ideal mind is a devil’s workshop”. We keep giving more volume of thoughts to even the simplest things which is causing all the misunderstanding and unnecessary spat with partner or anybody. This is a time to be together, time to understand each other, being patient with one another, love endlessly. But we all fail at some point. Spend more time face-to-face. Because, this is one agreement myself and my husband are working on. And you know what? It helps! Truly, yes. We keep our phones away, and are practicing this habit of talking to each other on how the day went for both of us; his office work, my day time, some general news. Speaking and sharing helps too much beyond what we expect. Parents, who have children of young age, can spend time with kids and teach them many learnings. Give them little activities, which means not just that are related to academics. It can also be simple household works, helping in the kitchen, a short session in the terrace to get fresh breeze, and teach them physical exercises. Show them there is a lot to perform within this little space. We have so much to do, learn, and keep learning more. Especially housewives, it is not just your kitchen even now. Take care of your body and do something for yourself to build you better. Don’t forget yourselves while taking care of others. Get enough rest, sleep and relax, and stay hydrated. Cleanse your mind and detox your body.
Because, it is important, and you matter the most.
Let’s all try to be stress-free instead of worrying when this will end. Hard times don’t last. Let’s hope for it. We’re coming out of this together.

© Yashica Priya

A Personal Experience.

I got injured back-to-back a few days ago. It was a very painful segment for me, when you have plans lined up and be excited about. Everything had to be cancelled because of my carelessness toward myself. X-rays, scans, medicines! Too painful than one can imagine. While I was recovering from one, another one began. Apart from all these, this injury and pain taught me few things. Take care of oneself. It is important. Our body is our biggest prestigious treasure. Never take it for granted. Let me tell you. If you experience anything different in your body or internal organs, go to the hospital. Just have a little consultation with your doctor. That’s a bigger help you do to your health at Stage 1. It never should be, “After all a stomach disorder, a knee pain, constant inconvenience”. Take if serious. Your body tells you something isn’t right. Healthcare is a priority. Getting well from illness is a blessing. I’m already thankful to it! Moreover, the best thing that happened to me is my families. Phone calls, people coming over to see me, constant messages. Hardest times always prove who all really cares and have time for us. I’m feeling intensely blessed to have them all with me. True hearts care. Best families from both sides! ✨

© Yashica Priya

Please, Let’s All Stay Positive Now. Don’t Panic.

There are so many posts that I’ve been recently reading about Corona Virus. And I see many people sharing more posts on it. Look, it is severe and devastating. Agreed. But the more you look or read such posts, the more fear it will cause within you. Not just you but aslo within others. Updates are fine, but going so deep into it is for no good. I heard few people saying they avoid to see/hear news on Covid-19. When you share updates about it, it is causing a greater inconvenience as it tries to alter someone’s confidence with more fear. Instead of spreading negativity, let us calm down for a while, stay home, hope for the best, and pray. Or otherwise belive that the world is getting better. I don’t believe much in God or prayers, but the least I’m doing is to believe for something good to happen around the world. The Universe has a deeper connection with each of us and our thoughts. When you continuously fear about something bad is going to happen, it will. Living in this situation right now, it is high time we must feel grateful for being safe at home. Thank the place you live in, thank the food that you eat, thank the people around you for being with you. Because, being isolated will be more equal to death. Please avoid having thoughts like “What if it increases? What if it spreads so fast?” or any kinds of What-ifs. Expand your mind to develop positivity. Surely and confidentially say that we’re coming out of this, we will succeed through it. One negative thought blindfolds thousands of positive mindsets around you. It’s time for us to strongly believe that we, together, are going to be happy again.

© Yashica Priya

First Confident Post after New Year. 💕💯

This was a personal experience that I would like to share with whoever reading this.

Well, it was last year when my alliance was fixed, and I was engaged right after that. I had like 4 solid months for marriage. An important interval where every bride would be of mixed emotions. Just like that, I was too. Just after a couple of weeks after I got married, I had so many pimples all over my face. A completely clueless situation where you just don’t understand why it is happening so. Maybe because of a few stress or the feeling of fear to new life, coz they say stress is the major reason behind. I was totally depressed with that. I didn’t know what to do or how to face people, because that is the time so many visit you, the “new bride”.
The questions, laughter, hate, and all those I underwent are something so painful. People usually care less about asking “Hey how is your new life?”. Instead, they love asking, “What is wrong with your face? You never had this before?”. They ask you all the “Why & How” factors, when you’re already dying over it. I would also agree that I had good sweet people on my side who never questioned about it directly to me nor did they comment on it. Each and every day after marriage were the days where I used to sit in the room and cry to my husband. I couldn’t help saving or controlling myself from that depression as a very few people around kept adding stress with hell lot of questions and sarcasm. This doesn’t may sound too problematic to a few reading this. But being a girl, carrying so much inside, couldn’t tell anyone about it, couldn’t guess what’s happening around, I felt lost in the period where I was supposed to be happy. Those tears, regrets, guilt lead me to take a decision on what could be done to solve that little issue. I started doing all the possible ways to clear it. Had plenty of water, detoxing my body in natural ways, healthier foods, vegetables. Of all, the best thing I did was, I stopped stressing myself over the questions and hurtful words from anyone. I stayed calm, positive. No matter what happens I decided not to react. Doing that so longer fetched me the most unexpected results. I cleansed not just my face and body, but also my soul, thoughts, and mind.
We, humans, usually when facing something become frustrated and angry over it. I was the same before. Instead, using the same as a weapon to build me became more easier that pleasing anyone or minding them. It is completely useless to cry over things that worry us. Take it as a challenge and become mentally and physically stronger. Today, I’m thanking people who pulled me down. 💫🌟
Stay positive. Stay blessed. ♥️

© Yashica Priya

New Year Eve !

The last day in calendar. I would like to thank all those people who were on my side at the time of difficulties, those who helped me to get through it, those who really lended me their ears when I shared my lame thoughts, those who surprised me with little things, those who showed so much love on me which at times made me think if I even deserve it, those who made me smile and laugh. Special thanks to all you people here in my blog and followers who spent your precious time reading my blog and enjoyed. I feel so full. Thank you so much guys for making this year so great. Let the Universe kiss you with its good will. ♥️

Thank you 2019, for all the lessons and blessings to mastering and moulding me.
Great Cheers to 2020 ! ✨💫 Love & Peace to all.

© Yashica Priya

Loneliness is a Huge Depression

Being alone with nobody around or have nothing to do for a longer time is a serious thing to be treated. Suffering from mental agony of loneliness is much equal to that of extreme physical pain one can go through. People like them become depressed very easily even at the simplest failures. They long for connection with people but still refuse to do that because they’re used to the feeling of isolated and being alone. The most worse cases happen when married couples become divorcees and a sudden demise of loved ones. They undergo a serious phase of irritation; lack of concentration, losing hope in life, afraid to fall in love again, or even doubt their existence anymore. The lame laziness to wake up and feel the other side of the bed is empty, sitting in an empty balcony with two cups of tea but one person, going to workplace and find nothing interesting, cooking the same set of meal everyday and washing the same old clothes, sitting in a room and looking at those walls and getting lost with confused thoughts. There are a lot of things to be done, to cherish, to establish, and to enjoy. It all depends on how to manage and tackle to keep things in order to keep abreast with the perfect illustration of our dreams. The pain of our final breathe lasts just for a minute, but every second of loneliness kills.

© Yashica Priya

November 19 – International Men’s Day ❤

Speaking about the reality of today’s world, most of us discuss so much about women, their strength, how important they’re to the society, and about feminism. We rarely talk about men and their importance. Just as how a woman play major roles to bring up her family, men take equal and hardest pressure to lift every member in it. If women are strong in one way, men are stronger in many ways.
On an estimation of woman’s achievements, a theme about men should also be contemplated equally.
So, how back-breaking is it to breathe as a man?
It is not just a woman who takes care of the hardships at home, but a man who is being an initiative for all the resources.
If a woman is meant to build her home, a man is building his family. He is running to pay the bills and expenses.
He behaves as an armour to protect his people.
His unceasing efforts are neither seen nor exhibited.
He struggles at workplace. He strives hard for family’s welfare.
He runs the entire family; at the same time, he is being complained about the quality of rice. He enjoys the struggles to satisfy us.
He helps accomplish his son’s future, inspite of heavy burdens inside.
He is too concerned about his daughter’s well-being, just because the world is morally corrupted.
He carries a series of sensations to give a good life to his wife after 60s.
Still, he is judged on things that he couldn’t do.
Don’t hurt HIM. Be sure that you appreciate him for the million little things he does.
Always compliment them, be it a father, a brother, or a husband.
Because,
They care so much but they don’t understand the meaning of expressing it.
He leaves home everyday with a word “Take Care”.
He waves hand while leaving, but turns back once again to check if you locked home and got back inside.
He earns less, but brings home lots.
He says NO first, but later agrees with whatever you say.
He seems rude, but loves you secretly.
He restricts, but for the sake of goodness in future.
He never appreciates, but is always glad about your good work.

I have two special men in my life.
Firstly, my Dad. I’ve seen every little and tons of struggle my dad faced to give his two daughters and his wife the best life. He is a great inspiration and the biggest happiness to me.
Second, my Husband. Right now I see him thinking so much about me, my good and bad days, his career, our future. From being an irresponsible bachelor to suddenly being a perfect husband who started carrying a lot of responsibilities.
How beautiful these Men are!
He ain’t going to tell you “I love you” all the time. He might not be available to you when you need him. He won’t appreciate every meal that you do. He might miss an important plan with you. Understand. Understand his life, his pressure, and what he’s going through. Love him thoroughly with all your heart. Your actions or words shouldn’t add up to the burdens he’s already carrying. Let him know that he can come to you, look up to you, speak to you no matter how harder life gets. You’re his only companion and hope.
Thank the special men in your life every single day. They don’t need a reason to be greeted for. They don’t have a replacement. Amongst other men who rape and disrespect women, there are other gentle-hearted men out there who see a mother’s love in wife’s warmth, treat her well, respect her choices, listen to her broken stories, lift her up when she falls, hug her with silent prayers, and admire the purest beauty of womanhood right since his daughter is born.
Kudos to those lovely kinds! More love and peace to you.❤
Happy Men’s Day. ✨

© Yashica Priya

Do You Love Them?

How do you know you love them?

When you see their tears through text, sense how much pain they bear, know the value of that heart, and you feel everything inside your nerves and want to give the whole lot support of yourself just to see them smile and feel comfortable in your presence, know that you’ve literally fallen for them.

© Yashica Priya

Met New People? Don’t Forget Old Ones.

Moving on is the toughest segment one can go through in life. They talk to you, create memories with you, give you surprises, take efforts to be with you. But nothing remains the same throughout. Everything changes. Everyone changes. It is completely sick to expect people to remain the same with you. They find new people, different relationship, fresh career, or their dream environment. The atmosphere they engage into changes them completely. Also, you might have given them so much importance in life. You might have made them really really special. They might have cherished all that you have done to them. But it is not the same always. They never asked you to do all these but you did. Why? Because you love them? Because you want them to stay in your life forever? So that they won’t move aside from you? If these are the factors, it’s time to feel sorry for yourself. Trust me, your efforts, time, love, care, or whatever you do for others come with a expiry date in one’s life. Once it is there, it’s no more of your time with them anymore. Someone else overtakes. They find a deep connection with that new person. Giving lectures, trying to create a bond again, going behind, doing all the possible things to make them stay—no; nothing would really work. If one of you decide it is over, it means it is. Moving on is difficult. Letting go of something that kept you alive is tremendously hurtful. But think. Haven’t you done your best to always keep them at first place? Haven’t you showered enough love to always gel with them? Haven’t you asked them where all their efforts have gone? Haven’t you earlier told them how it feels to be ignored? Haven’t you tried explaining that loneliness kills? Haven’t you told that lack of appreciation creates inferiority? Haven’t you cried your feelings to them? You did everything. Literally everything. Enough being what you are not. Be what you really are. You’re so good to yourself. Treat your body better. Take care of your heart well. May your mind be relieved from all distressing thoughts. Few things that happen in life break your soul, tear you apart, put you lifeless. Move in front. Get back from unrealistic surrounding what you thought was real. It is possible. Push yourself to do that. One day, these will not even matter. Bless them and let it go. From stronger to being strongest.
Peace and Love to all.

© Yashica Priya