Life is a Bed of Roses & Thorns!

Life is a bed full of roses and thorns, they say. But I know that most of our lives are filled with more of thorns than roses.

How does it feel like when someone has given you all the promises to take care of you and love you forever, and they break their promise when you are in the most difficult situation?

How does it feel like when you are emotionally breaking down and there is nobody to pick you up?

How does it feel when your soul is ripping apart and the person who loved you the most is the reason behind?

How does it feel when you have done the best to everyone around you and got nothing in return?

How does it feel when you are physically drowning and there is nobody beside you to say “Don’t worry love” ?

How does it feel being cheated by the ones you trusted the most?

And finally, how does it feel to have going through all the above at the same time?

If anyone here is going through this (I wish nobody does), trust me it is going to be alright. You will be happy again. You will love again and you will be loved again. Everything in life is a matter of moment. Nothing is temporary. Let it go and wait till you get what you deserve.

With love,

Yashica Priya

Sharing this with you all !

It’s been so long since I wrote a blog post.
I was so held up with a lot of things. But I was having so many thoughts running on mind and I thought I should definitely pen it down with words here.

I was conversing with one of my well-wishers a few things. This cleared my doubts and calmed me a bit more.

That friend of mine has always told me to hold on to being respectful to myself. Even if I very keenly follow that, there are very few around me who literally put me down with their words. I’ve always been someone who doesn’t care about any shitheads saying anything about me. But recently things had gotten tough and it started breaking me. Also, it has shown the true colours of their character. I’m at that point in life where I literally stoped minding about anyone gossiping behind my back. But the worst part of this is, no matter how much I try to do, people keep repeating their ridiculous act.
Of all, one of the best things I’ve done so far is to move away from people who disrespected and ill-treated me. I’ve learned that no matter who is it, they are never worth your self-respect. Dignity and class are important. It is completely okay to be rude, straightforward, and question back if anyone is touching your self-respect.
A kind advice to every woman facing this:
Whenever you feel another woman is making you feel so bad about yourself, your body, your skin or your hardwork, put your head up, don’t give a damn, and walk away. Don’t sit there and listen to the conversation either. They have the capacity to make you hate yourself. Never give that space to anyone. Someone celebrating you just by who you are and what you do is more important than someone constantly putting you down. After all, if you see them coming again and sticking around you, don’t give them a second chance.

It is such a shame that we live in a society where women put other women down. Let peace remain, please.

©️ Yashica Priya

A Personal Experience.

I got injured back-to-back a few days ago. It was a very painful segment for me, when you have plans lined up and be excited about. Everything had to be cancelled because of my carelessness toward myself. X-rays, scans, medicines! Too painful than one can imagine. While I was recovering from one, another one began. Apart from all these, this injury and pain taught me few things. Take care of oneself. It is important. Our body is our biggest prestigious treasure. Never take it for granted. Let me tell you. If you experience anything different in your body or internal organs, go to the hospital. Just have a little consultation with your doctor. That’s a bigger help you do to your health at Stage 1. It never should be, “After all a stomach disorder, a knee pain, constant inconvenience”. Take if serious. Your body tells you something isn’t right. Healthcare is a priority. Getting well from illness is a blessing. I’m already thankful to it! Moreover, the best thing that happened to me is my families. Phone calls, people coming over to see me, constant messages. Hardest times always prove who all really cares and have time for us. I’m feeling intensely blessed to have them all with me. True hearts care. Best families from both sides! ✨

© Yashica Priya